Originally Posted by
yuki
Thanks man! It's really helpful but what do you think about aikido?
Aikido will fall into the category of "traditional martial arts" -- it won't help you much outside of its own framework. Wing Chun is another popular one that has the same flaw. Taekkyon is going to be another one.
With that being said, this is not to discourage anyone from practicing these, as if you devote a lot of time to them, you'll develop a much better awareness of your body's mechanics, undoubtedly get into better physical shape, etc. -- however, if you're in a street fight against not only a bigger guy, but a bigger guy who just walks forward and grabs onto you, you're going to be in danger.
That's why I would primarily look at disciplines which focus on grappling (BJJ, judo, wrestling), because as random as a street fight can be, having the upper hand in a grappling art will mitigate most of the danger, because grappling is far more determinative in a fight than striking. This is what the early UFC experiment ended up proving, after all.
Also, I thought about mentioning Krav Maga before so I'll address it now: it's basically the CrossFit of martial arts. The curriculum is broad but shallow. I've heard from other people that they over-rely on wrist lock takedowns and groin strikes. You're probably not going to hit a wrist lock takedown on a bigger guy. They also rarely spar, so you'll have little opportunity to put what you're learning into practice -- this is what makes other disciplines (BJJ, Judo and wrestling) exceptional in this regard, because you can drill techniques literally thousands of times and then go on to use them in a full-resistance sparring session.
Originally Posted by
Jojo
wrestling wrestling wrestling
reason why all great mma fighters have a great wrestling base and build up from there
The main issue with wrestling is availability. If you have already finished high school, it's going to be difficult to find a place that offers a wrestling program for untrained adults. Once you reach adulthood, the best place to learn wrestling will probably be a BJJ gym, any decent one will have takedowns in their program (and not just ones that rely on the gi).