good point, it is always hard to leave something that has friends in it (I.E forums) but our forums is the only way you can talk to so many poeple without getting critisized for your looks or how you act (most of the time) and if your playing toribash, you probably don't have many outside friends (atleast on my perspective)so, you come here to talk to friends you met playing or just talking to.
it's just too hard to quit on something with so many people tied up with it.