Originally Posted by
Mapleleaf
Not everyone thinks about sex all the time, in fact, most people I know don't think about it all.
Actually, everyone thinks about sex - it's just that they repress the thoughts.
Originally Posted by
Mapleleaf
Sex being the goal in all interaction between men and women is complete, utter bullcrap. Most people that think like that are people with very basic lines of thought that are not capable of understanding another human being and that human being's needs and preferences. I think it's very stupid to be that, well, shallow. (Makes me sound like a woman :V)
Well a human has an "emotional" side (want to have power, want for sex, want to live, capacity to love, etc., the stuff that comes from instinct) and a more rational side (contains the idea of morals, logical thinking, etc. comes from experience in life) and the two sides are very commonly in direct opposition of each other. In the case of 'why date women' the urge to have sex, or in some rarer cases, love, is the drive - it's just that the rational side suppresses these thoughts, and gives new, variably "true", meaning to a relationship. However, most of the time the instinct side prevails, it's just that most people won't admit it because the rational side suppresses the thoughts to that extent.
Originally Posted by
Mapleleaf
You people are talking about sex like it's eating; needed for survival and part of the working day. Sex isn't supposed to be something done to pass on genes to as many people as possible, like it is with animals. Humans are meant to choose one or two people out of a 'herd' and then keep those as partners, it has always been like that since the dawn of time. It's supposed to be a special thing between two people. Why else do you think people still call women whores when they have sex with a lot of men?
You're quite the talker, I want evidence of this, because the idea that males/females should choose only one other partner is not self-evidently natural. In fact, I believe it's quite the contrary, let me give you some evidence for my case. You do know that tribal cultures, such as certain African ones, had leaders which had more than five wives? There have been many examples of it - just use Google - the conclusion here is that the emotional/instinctive/natural side of humans most likely prefers to have as much sex as possible. In western cultures there is a certain moral which says that one should only have one wife - however this is artificially created (don't know why this idea came to be honest... interesting subject) by man, and hardly natural to our instincts (case in point; tribal cultures with men having many wives).