a man is only allowed to marry 4 times if he is helping a widow or a poor woman who is a dependant. and the talk abt all laws being based on the Quran, thats wrong. i agree that the ppl say that but most of our laws arent.

and if ur judging Islam by the illiterate population who know nothing. then its ur choice.
it would be more appropriate to judge by urself reading the Quran or looking at the literate ones.