HTOTM: FUSION
Originally Posted by Boredpayne View Post
onomatopoeia



This is specifically about terminally ill patients opting to die, as specified in the quote and original post.

Living implies dieing.

This is unavoidable.
Originally Posted by Gorman View Post
Living implies dieing.

This is unavoidable.




But seriously bru, I don't think anyone would have a problem (morally) with letting a terminally ill dude that's in heaps o' pain choose to end his life. Objections?

So the only issue that remains is whether that ill guy can give the doctor guy permission to kill him. Thoughts?

From my point of view, He was doing all-good.

There are some people who cannot see others in pain and can just do ANYTHING for them to release their pain.

He would have thought:

"If death is a way to stop their pain, then so be it."
Originally Posted by AikidoKP View Post
True, but as mentioned before, being terminally ill isn't. Changing variables doesn't help the discussion.
Sure, a perfectly healthy person who stubbed their toe is fine. Someone who's coughing up blood with two weeks to live isn't. Is it ok to kill one but not the other? I'd say that pretty much sums up what's being asked.

Originally Posted by Rutten View Post
But seriously bru, I don't think anyone would have a problem (morally) with letting a terminally ill dude that's in heaps o' pain choose to end his life. Objections?

So the only issue that remains is whether that ill guy can give the doctor guy permission to kill him. Thoughts?

Like I said, each case needs to be judged individually, would you let a guy with 15 days left to live kill himself? Seems a bit arbitrary.
Originally Posted by Logic View Post
Easier said than done. Most people in this situation would probably want the doctors to do everything possible, even if they "know" in an intellectual sense that there may be .001% chance of recovery. People often report being 100% confident that they will be the 1 in 1000 that recovers. Futility is much more difficult to assess from within these situations than from the outside.

Not really. I've had to make this choice before, and while it took a bit longer than choosing between a cheeseburger or lasagna, it didn't take long to decide, quite a simple decision, for me at least. It was either let the person suffer, or allow the doctor to "put them to sleep", killing them earlier to stop the pain.

Originally Posted by Gorman View Post
Like I said, each case needs to be judged individually, would you let a guy with 15 days left to live kill himself? Seems a bit arbitrary.

Yes. Any one who has been diagnosed with a terminal condition and is in enough pain to hold them in bed or in one place should have the option of assisted suicide. Whether it's 2 days or 2 years, as long as the conditions are met it should be an option.
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Originally Posted by AikidoKP View Post
Not really. I've had to make this choice before, and while it took a bit longer than choosing between a cheeseburger or lasagna, it didn't take long to decide, quite a simple decision, for me at least.

Your personal experience is interesting but does not address my claim, which was about "most people." And the fact that you compare deciding to participate in the death of a loved one with choosing between a cheeseburger or lasagna makes me suspicious about whether you have really been in this situation.

Another part of this story is that people in chronic pain often have reduced decision-making capacity, so often their health care decisions go to a proxy. This often means that a family member will be the one deciding the fate of the patient. I just think that most people do not have the courage to participate in assisted suicide. In fact, we see a parallel situation all the time - decisions about removing life support. So many people stay on life support for far too long because their family members are unable to let them go.
Last edited by Logic; Jun 7, 2011 at 02:30 PM.
Originally Posted by Gorman View Post
> enough pain to hold them in bed/one place AND terminally ill
So those are your conditions for allowing euthanasia?


What if he had 40 years left?
Would you stop him? Or would you let him do what he wants?

What if he wanted to kill you instead of himself?
Would you stop him? Or would you let him do what he wants?

I can't help but feel like this is a trap of some kind, but yes those are my conditions.
The time left doesn't matter. However, "Terminal illness is a medical term popularized in the 20th century to describe a disease that cannot be cured or adequately treated and that is reasonably expected to result in the death of the patient within a relatively short period of time."
It should be a personal decision, but if I was left in enough pain to hold me in place and I was terminally ill, I would not stop him.

Originally Posted by Logic View Post
Your personal experience is interesting but does not address my claim, which was about "most people." And the fact that you compare deciding to participate in the death of a loved one with choosing between a cheeseburger or lasagna makes me suspicious about whether you have really been in this situation.

Another part of this story is that people in chronic pain often have reduced decision-making capacity, so often their health care decisions go to a proxy. This often means that a family member will be the one deciding the fate of the patient. I just think that most people do not have the courage to participate in assisted suicide. In fact, we see a parallel situation all the time - decisions about removing life support. So many people stay on life support for far too long because their family members are unable to let them go.

The short of the story; my father passed away due to a late form of cancer. The doctors were telling me that he could have anywhere between a day and 2 weeks to live, however, because of the state and spread of the cancer, he would be bedridden, and in severe pain. His mental and bodily functions were deteriorating fast and I had to make a choice. I did say it was harder than choosing between foods, but it wasn't an overly difficult choice. I chose what I thought was the best thing I could do for him, put him out of his pain.
And before this gets attributed to some religious person saying something about "going to a better place", I'm an atheist, once you're dead, you're dead, nothing more, so no motivation of eternal salvation and pain-free existence or anything like that.

Originally Posted by Acavado View Post
Would you rather die or be a vegetable?

Die. Being a vegetable isn't living, at least not for me.
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Originally Posted by Gorman View Post
would you let a guy with 15 days left to live kill himself?

Would you stop him? Or would you let him do what he wants?

Originally Posted by AikidoKP View Post
Yes. Any one who has been diagnosed with a terminal condition and is in enough pain to hold them in bed or in one place should have the option of assisted suicide. Whether it's 2 days or 2 years, as long as the conditions are met it should be an option.

> enough pain to hold them in bed/one place AND terminally ill
So those are your conditions for allowing euthanasia?

Originally Posted by Rutten View Post
Would you stop him? Or would you let him do what he wants?

What if he had 40 years left?
Would you stop him? Or would you let him do what he wants?

What if he wanted to kill you instead of himself?
Would you stop him? Or would you let him do what he wants?