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What makes us who we are?
What defines you, the general human entity? Or YOU, a specific entity of humanity?

Is it what we do that sets us apart from others? Is it the underlying motives and though processes that make us who we are? In a similar vein, in a world with 7 billion, are you ever truly unique? Maybe your exact circumstances are, but every choice you make, it almost seems as though thousands more made the exact same. Can we find individuality in our lives? There aren't 7 billion different occupations or lifestyles for all of us. Somewhere there's another person sitting behind a computer screen asking the same questions I am, and that makes me question any idea that I or anyone else is special. I suppose there are exceptions like presidents of countries, but there are lots of Harvard-educated lawyers running around in politics, Barack Obama isn't some sort of unknown outlier. And if what defines us are our relationships with others, aren't we just a seething mass of ambiguity, an endless ring of synonyms that define each other in the dictionary?

I can only guess at what, on a genetic level, sets me apart. I would have to argue that what forms my identity are my values and ideas, as they define both the choices I make, and to a much lesser extent, my relationships with those around me.

And yet, it seems as though my values and ideas just as much a result of my environment and those around me, even more so, than some intrinsic properties in my DNA. If I grew up in a poorer environment, would I be a fundamentally different person? Would I not be me, or even relate to me?

It's a really difficult question that I find I can't completely tackle, and I would appreciate your thoughts on the subject.
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I really don't think this topic is a good idea, and I think you know how it will end.

I will keep it concise:

DNA, environment, -EXPLODE-

If we we all looked the same, and lived in a giant white room with a bunch of multicolored balls and canned beans/water, but nothing else, we would not have complex personalities, and our interests would be more or less limited to how we enjoy life, which ball is our favorite, whether we prefer beans to water, do we like the taste, how we came to be, and thoughts about each other. So don't shit any creationist "we are all god's children" garbage on this thread please.

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Last edited by NormalCitizen; Feb 1, 2013 at 03:07 PM.
In order of your questions;

Form and genetics, if it fits the mold it's a human.
Experiences and personality, not to mention genetics.
In part, but also what we think, feel, and how we experience the world.
In part yes, physical and mental, past and present, each are important.
Yes, without a doubt. You can broadly categorize people, but in the end when you zoom in far enough, you can tell the difference.
We can find individuality, but individuality does not mean uniqueness, it doesn't mean doing things no one has ever done. I don't really think uniqueness or individuality should be glorified, because the one thing that makes humans powerful is their team work.
What's wrong with ambiguity? Language doesn't define the world. Sure it's a bother when you are dealing with specific situations, which is why you should treat adjectives as you would circles on a venn diagram, they narrow things down, not pinpoint them.
Nature and nurture are both important, even if you grew up elsewhere you would still be you, but because of your different experiences you would hold different values, ideals, etc. You wouldn't be a fundamentally different person.

To sum it up, a lot of this topic is "it's hard to explain but I know it when I see it".



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Originally Posted by NormalCitizen View Post
DNA, environment, brain, race, ethnicity, how I was raised, etc.

Why so many synonyms? Can't we just say "DNA and environment" (aka nature and nuture)?
Otherwise please post some citation to prove that DNA, race and ethnicity are not linked ;)

Maybe I'm too much of a machinist, but even if I buy two computers and use them for the same thing, they are going to be separate and have their own quirks build up with time anyway. Even two identical machines in the same environment are unique. It's crazy to even question if humans are unique.
Last edited by ImmortalCow; Feb 1, 2013 at 10:48 AM.
Originally Posted by ImmortalCow View Post
Why so many synonyms? Can't we just say "DNA and environment" (aka nature and nuture)?
Otherwise please post some citation to prove that DNA, race and ethnicity are not linked ;)

Lol damn, you got me there.
To answer this simply. From the moment we open our eyes to the last time we close them we are affected by what we see, what we hear, and what we do. These are the basic units of our outcome as a person.
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I think he was looking for a more specific answer to that grand question dizzy, and its a hell of a question to ask. Without anything significant to set us apart it does seem like out if the billions of humans on the planet that someone is going to be just like you. It's a very valid point to raise, I know that plenty of people have the same habits, preferences, behaviors and virtually everything in common with the only differentials being: the people that they know, and their personal experiences that led then to the same conclusion that you've reached.

Beyond the generic level, the environment, parenting, influences and personal experiences etc. does get some credit to shaping a person, however there are still variables that can't really be explained. Such as how a person can have great parents, a clean drug free home, an above average income, and good Morales yet their child will become a cocaine fiend or a pot head. My point is i suppose perhaps its these things that we can't explain are the things that truly set us apart, along with the experiences that brought us upon or own unique path to the people that we are today.

I mean someone who is completely conscious of why a decision was made isn't that specific reason unique for every person?. As long as we don't forget why we made these choices, and don't simply conform and toss aside our consciousness and run into the streets yelling yolo, then i believe those such things preserve uniqueness. The whole many paths one destination concept. These may be small differences, but in some cases less is more as they say.

Also on my phone so please excuse any typos.
Last edited by AzureMage; Feb 1, 2013 at 03:58 PM.
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Originally Posted by AzureMage View Post
Such as how a person can have great parents, a clean drug free home, an above average income, and good Morales yet their child will become a cocaine fiend or a pot head.

Self control issues, brain disorders, teenage rebellion due to (or not due to) pop culture, curiosity, clinical depression, boredom, laziness, first world brat disorder, peer pressure, addiction (due to all of the above), self loathing, and bets.

Just to name a few causes of why those things can happen.
Originally Posted by NormalCitizen View Post
Self control issues, brain disorders, teenage rebellion due to (or not due to) pop culture, curiosity, clinical depression, boredom, laziness, first world brat disorder, peer pressure, addiction (due to all of the above), self loathing, and bets.

Just to name a few causes of why those things can happen.

Of course these are all possibilities and actual reasons, but there are also just idiots and those who simply say because i wanted to. The point of that statement wasn't trying to figure out why these things happen though, but to point out that humans are not very logical nor predictable by nature. Not to mention that there are too many variables for any two people to truly be alike, depending on how much the small differences mean in each persons opinion.
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Originally Posted by AzureMage View Post
I think he was looking for a more specific answer to that grand question dizzy, and its a hell of a question to ask. Without anything significant to set us apart it does seem like out if the billions of humans on the planet that someone is going to be just like you. It's a very valid point to raise, I know that plenty of people have the same habits, preferences, behaviors and virtually everything in common with the only differentials being: the people that they know, and their personal experiences that led then to the same conclusion that you've reached.

Beyond the generic level, the environment, parenting, influences and personal experiences etc. does get some credit to shaping a person, however there are still variables that can't really be explained. Such as how a person can have great parents, a clean drug free home, an above average income, and good Morales yet their child will become a cocaine fiend or a pot head. My point is i suppose perhaps its these things that we can't explain are the things that truly set us apart, along with the experiences that brought us upon or own unique path to the people that we are today.

I mean someone who is completely conscious of why a decision was made isn't that specific reason unique for every person?. As long as we don't forget why we made these choices, and don't simply conform and toss aside our consciousness and run into the streets yelling yolo, then i believe those such things preserve uniqueness. The whole many paths one destination concept. These may be small differences, but in some cases less is more as they say.

Also on my phone so please excuse any typos.

I wanted to write something like this, but I had other things to attend to. I'm glad you were able to state my oppinion.
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Originally Posted by NormalCitizen View Post
Self control issues, brain disorders, teenage rebellion due to (or not due to) pop culture, curiosity, clinical depression, boredom, laziness, first world brat disorder, peer pressure, addiction (due to all of the above), self loathing, and bets.

Just to name a few causes of why those things can happen.

Brain disorders are like the wild card of life. You usually don't do anything to get them, but they can be what affects the most at times.
Last edited by Apex; Feb 1, 2013 at 04:50 PM. Reason: <24 hour edit/bump
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