You can always create your own room labled beginners , that way if some one is farming you can kick them or set the room rules so the winner/ loser are put at the bottom of the list .
I dont see why you have problems fighting players that are better then you , its good experience and if it is only official mods you play ( wich require no skill really), learn those silly openers everyone uses .
But I recomend learning how to run ( running.tbm) , sparring and parkour . Thats what the big boys play .