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My friend is cutting his wrist (you know those emo shit stuff).
Well, yeah I'm the only friend he has in school. He gets bullied everytime, same in school and in his house (parents)...
I don't know what to do now since he kept on cutting it almost everytime.
I need your help guys!

I don't know how to stop this. I don't even know why he cuts D: It's uncool! ><
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Isn't it a bit odd to ask for help, for serious situation like that, on this forum?
You should contact some social service instead.... >.>

And how are they not involved already? I mean, someone must have noticed, beside yourself, that he's cutting his wrists...
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Originally Posted by rjayquin View Post
My friend is cutting his wrist (you know those emo shit stuff).
Well, yeah I'm the only friend he has in school. He gets bullied everytime, same in school and in his house (parents)...
I don't know what to do now since he kept on cutting it almost everytime.
I need your help guys!

I don't know how to stop this. I don't even know why he cuts D: It's uncool! ><

If I were to suggest something on my own opinion, I'd try not to include anyone else into the situation if it's not too serious.
For now, just talk about it in a subtle manor, and see if you can get him to open up.

Also, the general populace (especially those who aren't adults) are unimaginably idiotic when it comes to things like this. :/
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I highly recommend defend him, or make him be friends with other people or something so more people will like him and think he's cool and stuff, and more people defend him yay! or something.
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Nice reply: Try to convince him that he's hurting himself for no reason, help him make more friends, get him a girlfriend, etc, and take him to a psychiatrist, or find out if there's something behind the behaviour. You could also try to explain that he's hurting others as well as himself.

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Let him bleed, it's not like the little shit will ever amount to anything in life, I hate emos, fucking acting like their lives are hard, when they live in the lap of luxury in the first world.

See that clean water you just cleaned your slice marks with? Starving chilren in haiti don't have even that, and they're not cutting themselves. Fuck.
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Originally Posted by Django77 View Post
I'm starting to think that this is just another troll thread.

Man shit! gtfo if you're not trying to help!
this is the reason why I hate making personal life (threads) on forums.
Originally Posted by smosh023 View Post
I highly recommend defend him, or make him be friends with other people or something so more people will like him and think he's cool and stuff, and more people defend him yay! or something.

I like that answer! I usually bring him to my hangouts so I could introduce him to some of my friends.

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Let him bleed, it's not like the little shit will ever amount to anything in life, I hate emos, fucking acting like their lives are hard, when they live in the lap of luxury in the first world.

See that clean water you just cleaned your slice marks with? Starving chilren in haiti don't have even that, and they're not cutting themselves. Fuck.

hehe.. yeah that's what I thought too! I don't see why cutting thereselves actually helps them! its not gonna help! that's what I told him..

anyways, I asked my parents and they told me to talk to a professional (counselors).. they could help!
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Hide those razors and smack some sense into him, I mean you're his friend but don't go lightly on him if you truly care. I honestly avoid EMO people but I don't hate them, they just make my sunny days feel rainy that's all. If he's getting bully make sure to stand up for him if you can lol or just yell *bully* and call some teachers to assist you. I know is hard, but if you truly want him as a friend, fuck it, YOLO.
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One of my ex girlfriends actually cut and I was the only one who knew about it. She cut her thighs and shit though, not her wrists. She used to tell me she heard voices in her head telling her to kill herself, which worried me quite a bit - so I managed to convince her to see the doctor. The doctor said that the auditory hallucinations and depression was probably due to lack of sleep, and prescribed her some melatonin. She started getting sufficient sleep and after a week or two she was no longer cutting and she was a happier person. We managed to get everything fixed and no one ever found out.

Tl;dr - There's alot of things that can cause someone to cut, seeing a doctor anonymously would maybe be a good idea. Although, over here in Ireland - Doctors aren't allowed to tell our parents if we don't want them to. Dunno what it's like for you guys outside.
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Originally Posted by p0w View Post
Hide those razors and smack some sense into him, I mean you're his friend but don't go lightly on him if you truly care.

Didn't think of that. But what if he gets mad and shit? well, someone's life is worth more than "relationship" .. something like that.. I can't really describe it.
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One of my ex girlfriends actually cut and I was the only one who knew about it. She cut her thighs and shit though, not her wrists. She used to tell me she heard voices in her head telling her to kill herself, which worried me quite a bit - so I managed to convince her to see the doctor. The doctor said that the auditory hallucinations and depression was probably due to lack of sleep, and prescribed her some melatonin. She started getting sufficient sleep and after a week or two she was no longer cutting and she was a happier person. We managed to get everything fixed and no one ever found out.

Tl;dr - There's alot of things that can cause someone to cut, seeing a doctor anonymously would maybe be a good idea. Although, over here in Ireland - Doctors aren't allowed to tell our parents if we don't want them to. Dunno what it's like for you guys outside.

Thanks for the help man. Yeah I know people too who cuts their thighs. its basically the same as cutting their wrist. My sister cuts her self when she has problems. I hated it so much! ><

Well, I told my friend to be honest to me .. I told him that he can count on me and I wouldn't let anyone "abuse/criticize him" I feel his pain..

right now I think the best way is to show that I'm their for him.
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Didn't think of that. But what if he gets mad and shit? well, someone's life is worth more than "relationship" .. something like that.. I can't really describe it.


Thanks for the help man. Yeah I know people too who cuts their thighs. its basically the same as cutting their wrist. My sister cuts her self when she has problems. I hated it so much! ><

Well, I told my friend to be honest to me .. I told him that he can count on me and I wouldn't let anyone "abuse/criticize him" I feel his pain..

right now I think the best way is to show that I'm their for him.

Just do your best but don't over exceed your limits and do more than what he's doing. Sometimes we care to much but that person don't realize how much is that caring worth because they don't react and just keep being the same and just keep depending on others without making a change. I suggest you try to talk to him and maybe just let him know what you're feeling and that he should change in order to go forward. Make him realize and get some professional help so he can move on and leave that painful way of living that is not healthy and worth walking alone, Good luck!
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