Mine were never married, but they separated when I was about 1year old. Tbh, it was hell as a kid because of their hostility towards eachother. When dad was going to move to Spain, I had to meet some old ladies asking me "who did I like the most, mom or dad" and stuff like that. But you get used to it, really. If they aren't happy with eachother then they shouldn't be with eachother.