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Born Gay
Whether sexual orientation is a trait we are born with (nature) or is caused by the environment we are raised in (nurture) has been debated by scientists, religious leaders, elected officials, and the general public.

Proponents argue that sexual orientation, much like handedness or tongue curling, is determined by natural, immutable biological factors such as genes or hormones, and therefore gay people should be entitled to the same legal rights and protections as other human beings.

Opponents argue that homosexuality is a reversible and unfortunate lifestyle choice resulting from poor child-parent relationships, sexual abuse, brainwashing by pro-gay influences, or other developmental causes. Some contend that gay people should be denied marriage, discrimination protection, and social and religious acceptance.


TL ; DR Do you think human beings are born gay, or do they develop these traits from their lifestyle?
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There hasn't been any evidence that people are born gay, so I personally would believe that it could be based on environment factors or something like that. I think those that are gay 'become' gay very early on, resulting in their realization of sexual orientation later in life however. Ultimately, why does it even matter?

Gay people don't have a choice whether or not they want to be gay; that's just the way it is. There is no 'reversal process', and anyone who claims there is, is a religious fanatic. It's not like a gay person just decides one day, "Hm, I'm gay". It's a gradual thing that people come to realize, some earlier, some later. It's stupid to restrict rights on someone who can't control who they are. It's the same argument people used to slave black people, based on religious texts and the sort.

"Brainwashing by pro-gay influences" is just laughable. Tons of people grow up in areas where you are specifically taught that it is wrong to be gay, and end up being gay anyways. Someone's sexuality isn't your business, and everyone deserves the same basic rights, regardless of their sexuality or race.
Originally Posted by Kyure View Post
There hasn't been any evidence that people are born gay, so I personally would believe that it could be based on environment factors or something like that. I think those that are gay 'become' gay very early on, resulting in their realization of sexual orientation later in life however. Ultimately, why does it even matter?

Gay people don't have a choice whether or not they want to be gay; that's just the way it is. There is no 'reversal process', and anyone who claims there is, is a religious fanatic. It's not like a gay person just decides one day, "Hm, I'm gay". It's a gradual thing that people come to realize, some earlier, some later. It's stupid to restrict rights on someone who can't control who they are. It's the same argument people used to slave black people, based on religious texts and the sort.

"Brainwashing by pro-gay influences" is just laughable. Tons of people grow up in areas where you are specifically taught that it is wrong to be gay, and end up being gay anyways. Someone's sexuality isn't your business, and everyone deserves the same basic rights, regardless of their sexuality or race.

I'd like to refute the fact that there is no evidence that people are born gay.

I'd like to point out that this is all speculation and no actual hard evidence.

If people are born gay, please explain why there are numerous cases where people who have been straight all their lives come out and vice verse, as well as go back and forth.

but some teams were unable to replicate the findings and the actual genes have not been found

Rice and his colleagues suggested that such unerased epi-marks might lead to homosexuality

the study would also be “more convincing” if the team could link the regions showing epigenetic differences to testosterone sensitivity in the womb.

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Originally Posted by Dscigs View Post
I'd like to point out that this is all speculation and no actual hard evidence.

If people are born gay, please explain why there are numerous cases where people who have been straight all their lives come out and vice verse, as well as go back and forth.

Bisexuality basically, along with other sexuality's where people have hard times finding ways to explain themselves with their preferences.
Originally Posted by Dscigs View Post
If people are born gay, please explain why there are numerous cases where people who have been straight all their lives come out and vice verse, as well as go back and forth.

what,
was that even really a question

It's as simple as this,

A man was born gay but because of social stigma stayed in the closet until he was ready to endure the social stigma associated with Homosexuality.

It's not like they were straight their entire life and then were like "wow i like dick"

Also why would being raised a certain way influence sexuality.

What influences heterosexuality??
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Originally Posted by Kyure View Post
There hasn't been any evidence that people are born gay, so I personally would believe that it could be based on environment factors or something like that. I think those that are gay 'become' gay very early on, resulting in their realization of sexual orientation later in life however. Ultimately, why does it even matter?

I've known many fully grown adults who have grown up in a normal setting, have mothered or fathered children and have since found themselves attracted to the same sex, or the opposite sex as well. I find it difficult to believe that people's environments affect their sexual orientation/s. It may of course change the way they act, what they believe in, etcetera, but I don't see how it could change their fundamental nature.

Originally Posted by Kyure View Post
Gay people don't have a choice whether or not they want to be gay; that's just the way it is. There is no 'reversal process', and anyone who claims there is, is a religious fanatic. It's not like a gay person just decides one day, "Hm, I'm gay". It's a gradual thing that people come to realize, some earlier, some later. It's stupid to restrict rights on someone who can't control who they are. It's the same argument people used to slave black people, based on religious texts and the sort.

I think that it's pretty sad how some people act negatively towards openly expressive homosexuals. I won't go ahead and say that I myself have never had negative thoughts towards the notions of homosexuality, but I do openly try to understand the notion and treat people as I would anyone else.


Originally Posted by Tourneymun
Do you think human beings are born gay, or do they develop these traits from their lifestyle?

It's possible to display the traits of what some may declare as "gay" and still be inclined towards attraction of the opposite sex. Saying that "this girl that holds herself like a man must be a lesbian", or "that guy must be gay because he has makeup on", are totally inaccurate. There are many 'straight-looking' people that are 100% queer. Sexuality is but a tiny speck on the frying pan that is a world of differences.
Originally Posted by Deuteria View Post
Saying that "this girl that holds herself like a man must be a lesbian", or "that guy must be gay because he has makeup on", are totally inaccurate.

I'd disagree entirely with this. Stereotypes exist for a reason, and 'gaydar' does kind of exist. Is it accurate 100% of time? Of course not. But more often than not, I am able to tell if someone is gay. Whether it be the way the talk, or walk, or he way they dress, there are ways to know. It is stereotypical yes, but true.
Whether someone who is gay accepts it or doesn't. They don't have a choice. Doctors referred to homosexuality as a disease when it came to scientific diagnosis until the 1970's. But is no longer viewed that way.

There is no proof of it being genetic, being born that way, or how you were raised. So no one can say for certain. Which is why this whole discussion will turn religious, and not the best.

I honestly don't know. But i sure as hell know homosexuality isn't a choice. That is all.

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Originally Posted by WeooWeoo View Post
Whether someone who is gay accepts it or doesn't. They don't have a choice. Doctors referred to homosexuality as a disease when it came to scientific diagnosis until the 1970's. But is no longer viewed that way.

There is no proof of it being genetic, being born that way, or how you were raised. So no one can say for certain. Which is why this whole discussion will turn religious, and not the best.

I honestly don't know. But i sure as hell know homosexuality isn't a choice. That is all.

It definitely is a choice lol. You aren't born with it, and the actions you chose definitely influence it.