Okay I'm trying to play Toribash on multi-player but its not showing any rooms at all can somebody tell me what the heck is going on.

/me points at the news board

You'll find everything you need to know there + how to fix it.

/me points at his signature.

If updating fails try that.

If any of this was too vague for you, all you have to do is either download the new version of toribash, or apply the multiplayer patch to your version (TB 3.01 - 3.91).

You can find the newest version (3.93/3.94, depending on your operating system) here, and the patch here.