Is there any reason i can't go online?

First of all:

Make sure you have the latest ToriBash client, and that you aren't trying to join a server which has a min/max belt requirement.

Read these two links:

1) http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=214209

2) http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=338934

And check to make sure you are completely updated to toribash 3.99

log out of your account and log back in.it helped me before