Grounded from tb? Hah.. Unless you have some history of mental imbalance in the sight of violence, you can take this "talk" right to her, and figure out what she's so afraid of. Tb is one thing, it doesn't matter that much, but what gets me off is the way certain people think, and they're wrong. It almost hints to religion, which would explain why some decisions would be downright inept out of fear from invisible monsters. Bleh maybe i am being pre-judgemental. Still, being restricted for no reason, or the reason not given to you asks for confrontation. That's how i handle family issues anyway, you can do whatever you see fit. Until then i'll be seeing you later then.