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Originally Posted by mwah View Post
sure, white people can be offended. I don't see how they wouldn't have that right it really goes both ways. and if a white person can get offended by the word you have to assume that a black person would. so why say it?

Yes, obviously, white people can be offended by the word. What I'm questioning is whether the offence they take is justifiable. White people can never be targeted by the word the same way black people can. White people don't have the heritage that makes the word offensive to them in the first place. White people that get offended by the word are co-opting the outrage, because they feel guilty. This white guilt feeds into my point about the 'gotcha' mentality.

Originally Posted by mwah View Post
also I don't know what you mean by the gotcha mentality, elaborate?

The second a white person uses the word, even when they're clearly not using it to direct hate at black people, everyone instantly jumps down their throats (I'm sure we've all seen this often in IRC/ingame and often in the media). We're sooo quick to try to destroy people for speaking like normal. That's what I mean when I say 'gotcha' - it's this hyper politically correct/SJW mentality that's powered by co-opted outrage and white guilt.
Last edited by Ele; Oct 12, 2015 at 04:17 AM.
I think that white people shouldnt use the n word and the same goes for black people, its offensive as hell eitherway, but if a black person says it and a white person says it they should get equal punishment, aka it should just be a word that is in general banned from this game black or white
Why ban freedom of speech? Sure, it's a terrible word, but this only got brought up because people get overly offended by it. People file reports for someone saying nigga. Once. I have a big issue with people who are genuinely racist, but going so far as to ban free speech in a fucking video game because kids don't have a thick enough skin to use the Internet is just ridiculous.

tl;dr: man up instead of playing the race card instantly.
I think I might be retired.
Originally Posted by Veoo View Post
I think that white people shouldnt use the n word and the same goes for black people, its offensive as hell eitherway, but if a black person says it and a white person says it they should get equal punishment, aka it should just be a word that is in general banned from this game black or white

If someone says nigger, and does not use it in any sort of direct and hateful way, then they should not be punished.
Also, claiming that a word that was used against an entire race of people in a contemptible, and the people who were using that word against then should be punished equally is pretty god damned stupid if you ask me.
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Originally Posted by Valterain1 View Post
Also, claiming that a word that was used against an entire race of people in a contemptible, and the people who were using that word against then should be punished equally is pretty god damned stupid if you ask me.

The scenario you are imagining is a descendent of a slaver (since slavery ended 6 generations ago, their great great great grandparent presumably) calling a descent of a slave (a great great great grandchild of a slave) "nigger" and thinking "oh how horrific, they will have flashbacks to 100+ years before they were born".

But the word was only derogatory in a small part of the world for a short duration of time. The vast majority of whites never had any of their ancestors involved in the slave trade in any way. Do you really think a white guy from Montenegro saying "sup my nigger" to a Japanese-Brazil is somehow worse than "NIGGER NIGGER NIGGER" - song by some black guy because the slav is white?

FYI, it's not nice to utilize any word as a pejorative, regardless of the history. People don't think "hey don't call me that my great great great great uncle was a slave", they think "I don't like that".

The history is totally irrelevant. Political power of blacks and excessive race baiting aside, no one without an agenda is actually offended by the word nigger.

Originally Posted by HiPower View Post
white people have this misconception that the n-word is a term of endearment. it's not.

babycakes is a term of endearment.
sugarpie is a term of endearment.
nigger is not.

slavery might not be happening anymore and jim crow might be gone—but when a white person uses the n-word casually, it's a reminder of the powerful oppression that once was (and still is, to a lesser extent).

the n-word is the only thing in our culture over which Black people have exclusive domain. all Black people know (and damn near all white people understand) that any use of the n-word by any other race other than Black people (Hispanics have been given somewhat of a pass with using the word) is socially unacceptable simply because the n-word has historically been used as a term for power and oppression over an entire population of people which literally lasted hundreds of years.

the use of the n-word amongst Black people is really a reminder to the dominant society that all the power that word once had—the dehumanization of an entire population for hundreds of years—has now been completely stripped away. using that word is the one thing a Black person can do that a white person cannot do in a social setting.

:^)

Biggest bait ITT, surprised no one bit already.

EDIT: Except Grohenbird, he bit, not hard but he had a nibble
Last edited by ImmortalPig; Oct 12, 2015 at 05:40 PM.
<Faint> the rules have been stated quite clearly 3 times now from high staff
The word nigga has become slang
And after all the segregation we felt it as ours when you take a word that has so much hate in it and you strip it like yeah I'm a nigger so what it's about showing you're OK with your race really that's how I see it. The word loses meaning
In school girls call each other slut or bitch all the time those words carry alot of bad meaning in them they still use it
notice how black people don't have a racist name for white people they have cracker but that's about it and we don't use it will the hate that nigger has behind it we crackers btw came from the sounds that whips made when whites used to whip slaves pretty shit insult tbh
But people who use nigger are just being edgy and should be ignored its basically like saying dead baby jokes to get a reaction just don't care about it this is a game if you really have a big problem just fucking opt chat 0 and be done with it's just a game

In real life there are other ways of dealing with people who say nigger though
Last edited by Pimp; Oct 12, 2015 at 02:53 PM.
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In real life you can be a competent human being and ignore them if you get butthurt over their words, or more realistically in my generation, blame all of your failures and emotions on everyone else so a) everything offends you even if it was obviously not offensive, or b) you stop trust everyone.

Ironically, the above also applies to the internet, and I'm willing to bet that most people that report stupid little race issues that really aren't race issues fall under the (a) category. I'll also probably be reported for pointing out that all of those people aren't in touch with their feelings, thus offending them.

Originally Posted by ImmortalPig View Post
:^)

Biggest bait ITT, surprised no one bit already.

I bit and I'm sad you didn't make fun of me, too.
Last edited by Grohenbird; Oct 12, 2015 at 03:20 PM. Reason: <24 hour edit/bump
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In real life its different if someone has the gull to call you a nigger to your face and start shit it's different but over the internet and on TV its different you can say nigger on TV doubt anyone is going to come looking for you but words are just words in the end they are interpreted differen't and are always changing
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People, especially staff seriously don't understand what racism is. Nigga isn't racism. Saying a "racist joke" isn't always "racist".

Its all about context and the manner in which it was said, staff (GMs in particular) really seem to struggle with this concept. I understand that rules implemented by staff are very black and white (pun intended) so that there is no grey area for arguing.

That being said I really feel that this type of ruling really kills of the community feel and freedom that games need. I think Toribash is waaaaaay to over-moderated and a much more relaxed take on rules creates a much less "Staff vs Players" atmosphere.

I'm sure in 99% of reports no one is offended. I think there is very very few genuine racists in the toribash community. Out of the 100s that say nigga i think none are actually racist. The only real racist person in the toribash community i can think of is Fish.

Fish never got banned for being racist (one of the only real racists) where as 100s of people having fun and casually using the word nigga have been banned.
Staff don't necessarily ban words because using them makes you a racist, they ban them because they are offensive. Not that I have an opinion either way on what the rules should be.
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