Well, the first sentence of our dsc was (before redundant edited it) "We are a personality-based clan)
Pretty sure we need personality.

And uh, I didn't talk to him in irc neither yet, but I'd say no now I think.

One of the first and best reasons I can think of right now is that he didn't state a good reason to join tldr right now.
You say we need loyal members, but someone who's reason to join is stalking his friend doesnt sound very loyal.