If you don't see the Toribash menu at all
Another problem you might have right away is not seeing the Toribash, menu like this:
This means that you don't have your graphics card's drivers updated. You'll have to go to start > run > dxdiag > display to find out what graphics card you have and download the matching drivers. If you can't find them, feel free to make a thread at our Support board and we'll figure it out for you.