Oooh, thats a good one. Well for starters, I'll say that motivation come natural for some , but it's difficult for others. But one thing stands true: No one will do anything they don't feel they can benefit from in some way, whether it is emotionally, socially or physically. That being said, If you want to find your impetus, try to find how to benefit from a situation, no matter what the outcome of said situation. For example, ToriBash. Personally (and being the lowest belt in the clan), I feel motivated to become an avid member both on the forums and in-game. So i ask myself "How can i get better?". Practice. What will practice give me? New skill. Where will those new skills come into play? In rooms and when practicing more. But who will know besides me? My fellow clan mates. And that's how you can bring it back to yourself. If I (just in this example anyway) want to feel as though I have become a well-rounded and recognized player, I should practice, because this is the first step in the necessary procedure to do so. Now I know this is a pretty obvious example, but I hope I still made my point. Anything else?