Its good that you have been hanging out with our members, thats the first step. now the question is, have you been invited to join by one of our members?
Just hang out more on our servers, be VERY active on forums (only 5 posts?) and dont be a dick, and i'm sure you'll be able to be invited. I can't play with you in game due to overload of work irl, but I hope to see you around