Originally Posted by
MintCat
Because generally kids don't use the word 'fag' in its accepted connotation. Now most use it to describe somebody they simply dislike.
The fact that society could take a word previously directed at homosexuals, and change it to simply mean anyone you dislike seems pretty insulting by itself doesn't it? It has seemed to lose the discrimination part of its meaning, but not the hate part, and that hate is still a reminder of prejudice towards homosexuals. On the other hand, the word "nigger" has kept the discrimination part of its meaning, as it is still very much associated with black people, but it has lost the hate it once implied to the point of, an a great number of cases, literally being a way to express friendship and mutual respect, which is the opposite to it originally implying that you were something barely human, a possession.
In the one case you have a word which once meant hatred against a minority, but which now can mean practically anything or nothing within that minority. And on the other you have a word which once meant hatred against a minority but which now can be used to express hatred to people outside of that minority? Everyone knows that fgt implies you are gay, a gay guy is still going to feel very much associated with that word, and with the implications of its use (based on context).
Why do we pretend it is ok to offend certain sexual orientations but not certain races? I imagine that a lot of homosexuals start off being vaguely ashamed of their sexuality, or at least insecure about how others would react to it, which is why people sometimes remain latent for so long. Do black people feel similarly insecure about their ethnicity?
And no, I am not willing to accept that an 'a' in the place of an 'ger' and practically identical pronunciation is enough to make any difference to the words meaning. Even if it does help indicate the context of a statement, I think that the rest of the statement should be much more important to the context than the choice of spelling for a single word of that statement. Regardless of spelling, the word needn't always imply bad things, and needn't always be treated that way.
I don't know how we are allowed rainbow flashing post icons for fgt but get banned for ill-thought out use of the word "nigger". I know that slavery was a lot worse than persecution of homosexuals, but that was ages ago. You shouldn't be traumatised about something which happened before you were even born. Both words were originally used with similar amounts of hate, even if the circumstances which accompanied their use weren't the same.