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Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
wtf? are you gay or otherwise non-conventionally oriented? how the fuck do you know it's "lost its meaning"?? have you been a victim of hate speech in your entire life? i imagine not, so how the fuck would you know how it feels to be called a slur like that?

"are you gay or otherwise non-conventionally oriented?"

No.

"how the fuck do you know it's "lost its meaning"??"

Because generally kids don't use the word 'fag' in its accepted connotation. Now most use it to describe somebody they simply dislike.

"have you been a victim of hate speech in your entire life? i imagine not, so how the fuck would you know how it feels to be called a slur like that?"

How the fuck is that even relevant?
Originally Posted by Note View Post
If you have to discuss if it's allowed or not, it shouldn't be.

I don't even know why we're arguing and making this personal. This discussion thread is about a word that is used negatively to insult a person.

A word that is used negatively to insult a person.

Ban it and actually make this a step towards a palatable game community instead of a bunch of edgy boys.
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No, Note, it's about using the word when you're not using it to negatively insult a person. It's about context, which you've completely ignored in your eagerness to shut down any discussion about the topic.

"If you have to discuss if it's allowed or not, it shouldn't be". That is laughably ignorant logic. By that logic, no laws would change ever. Say goodbye to gay marriage, say goodbye to civil rights, say goodbye to women's rights.

Don't post here again if all you're going to say is "This discussion is stupid/triggerering me, close it". Refer to context (the basis of this thread). If you believe that context doesn't mean anything to how words should be received, then go ahead and make that argument and make sure you justify it.
Originally Posted by MintCat View Post

How the fuck is that even relevant?

what's the reason you don't call people slurs again? hmm, might be because it's literal hate speech. that might just be why racial slurs are banned. because it's fucking hate speech.

I don't care how many times your dumb straight friends have thrown around the term "faggot" at each other, it doesn't change the fact that people have been driven to suicide and isolation due to others using that word towards them.

imagine, if you're capable, that you were a person of color. i dont expect you to understand what it's like to be treated the way black people are in western civilization (obviously I don't either), but imagine spending your life being berated with a word made up by those of a privileged race literally to address you as less than human. inb4 hurr racism doesnt exist anymore

then you go on an internet forum and see that people are defending the right to use it because "it doesnt mean anything anymore". but just because it doesnt "mean anything" to some white yuppie kids doesn't mean it suddenly magically no longer hurts you to hear it. ever notice how the people who defend everyone using these words are never among the same people the words were directed at?

who the fuck are you to say "faggot" doesn't "mean" anything?
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Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
what's the reason you don't call people slurs again? hmm, might be because it's literal hate speech. that might just be why racial slurs are banned. because it's fucking hate speech.

I don't care how many times your dumb straight friends have thrown around the term "faggot" at each other, it doesn't change the fact that people have been driven to suicide and isolation due to others using that word towards them.

imagine, if you're capable, that you were a person of color. i dont expect you to understand what it's like to be treated the way black people are in western civilization (obviously I don't either), but imagine spending your life being berated with a word made up by those of a privileged race literally to address you as less than human. inb4 hurr racism doesnt exist anymore

then you go on an internet forum and see that people are defending the right to use it because "it doesnt mean anything anymore". but just because it doesnt "mean anything" to some white yuppie kids doesn't mean it suddenly magically no longer hurts you to hear it. ever notice how the people who defend everyone using these words are never among the same people the words were directed at?

who the fuck are you to say "faggot" doesn't "mean" anything?

To ban "faggot" is to follow the idea that general hate speech should be banned. Now, that simply can't be done.

When hate speech is directed towards a specific group/classification of people, then it's a bigger problem and much more personal. This can be done because it's easier to identify these words and there's less of them.

"Nigger" has only evolved to the extent of "nigga" being used as gangsta slang. Apparently that's fine because blacks themselves use it. Now, that goes for homosexuals too. I've heard them call each other faggots. This is because of the fact that their homosexuality is not a hot-topic any more.

Let's be honest with each other, we have yet to read "nigger" being used in an acceptable context.

The trouble is, you can't simply lump every single word as "hate speech" because it offends. Every word has its own effects and history, which should be taken into account.

Nigger is significantly worse than faggot, and I stand by that.
Last edited by MintCat; Nov 30, 2015 at 01:09 PM.
Originally Posted by Ele View Post
No, Note, it's about using the word when you're not using it to negatively insult a person. It's about context, which you've completely ignored in your eagerness to shut down any discussion about the topic.

"If you have to discuss if it's allowed or not, it shouldn't be". That is laughably ignorant logic. By that logic, no laws would change ever. Say goodbye to gay marriage, say goodbye to civil rights, say goodbye to women's rights.

Don't post here again if all you're going to say is "This discussion is stupid/triggerering me, close it". Refer to context (the basis of this thread). If you believe that context doesn't mean anything to how words should be received, then go ahead and make that argument and make sure you justify it.

But Ele I have to respectfully say that it doesn't matter if you use the word nigger in a way that is not offensive. It doesn't matter if you try to use it in a way that won't offend people because it will.
It doesn't need to be said period and I think most people (aside from a few members that are generally considered trolls and will say any word to edge people on) are with me here.

Nigga is a different story though I believe.
Sorry about me jumping in late here, didn't wanna touch this one. But the general consensus I'm getting here is that "Nigger" is a hate term, and "Nigga" isn't. May I ask what the difference is?
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Originally Posted by Shockey View Post
I don't see how anyone could be offended by nigger. It is just a word. What should be banned is if someone says "I hate niggers and they should die".

You cant keep everyone from getting offended in some sort of way so don't even try. Nigger is just as offensive as the word fat. If someone is fat and they get called fat, they're offended. Do we ban the word fat as well?? ugly??

And as regards to people saying there's kids playing this game so we shouldn't say it, explain the high amounts of swearing. It's the internet.

Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
what's the reason you don't call people slurs again? hmm, might be because it's literal hate speech. that might just be why racial slurs are banned. because it's fucking hate speech.

I don't care how many times your dumb straight friends have thrown around the term "faggot" at each other, it doesn't change the fact that people have been driven to suicide and isolation due to others using that word towards them.

imagine, if you're capable, that you were a person of color. i dont expect you to understand what it's like to be treated the way black people are in western civilization (obviously I don't either), but imagine spending your life being berated with a word made up by those of a privileged race literally to address you as less than human. inb4 hurr racism doesnt exist anymore

then you go on an internet forum and see that people are defending the right to use it because "it doesnt mean anything anymore". but just because it doesnt "mean anything" to some white yuppie kids doesn't mean it suddenly magically no longer hurts you to hear it. ever notice how the people who defend everyone using these words are never among the same people the words were directed at?

who the fuck are you to say "faggot" doesn't "mean" anything?

These two arguments seem to be the opposite sides here. I'd have to I agree with boStaff here though.
Last edited by MoldyRobot; Nov 30, 2015 at 02:26 PM. Reason: <24 hour edit/bump
Why do white dudes get super offended by the word nigger, I seriously see this way more often than black folks getting offended. Is it a guilt thing? Do they not want others to perpetuate what they did when yelling the word? Black people should be offended not any other race, black dudes don' want you to get offended for them. We should be seriously asking the Black Community in TB.

Like how many black dudes are commenting on this thread and how man have black friends?
Originally Posted by MintCat View Post
Because generally kids don't use the word 'fag' in its accepted connotation. Now most use it to describe somebody they simply dislike.

The fact that society could take a word previously directed at homosexuals, and change it to simply mean anyone you dislike seems pretty insulting by itself doesn't it? It has seemed to lose the discrimination part of its meaning, but not the hate part, and that hate is still a reminder of prejudice towards homosexuals. On the other hand, the word "nigger" has kept the discrimination part of its meaning, as it is still very much associated with black people, but it has lost the hate it once implied to the point of, an a great number of cases, literally being a way to express friendship and mutual respect, which is the opposite to it originally implying that you were something barely human, a possession.

In the one case you have a word which once meant hatred against a minority, but which now can mean practically anything or nothing within that minority. And on the other you have a word which once meant hatred against a minority but which now can be used to express hatred to people outside of that minority? Everyone knows that fgt implies you are gay, a gay guy is still going to feel very much associated with that word, and with the implications of its use (based on context).

Why do we pretend it is ok to offend certain sexual orientations but not certain races? I imagine that a lot of homosexuals start off being vaguely ashamed of their sexuality, or at least insecure about how others would react to it, which is why people sometimes remain latent for so long. Do black people feel similarly insecure about their ethnicity?

And no, I am not willing to accept that an 'a' in the place of an 'ger' and practically identical pronunciation is enough to make any difference to the words meaning. Even if it does help indicate the context of a statement, I think that the rest of the statement should be much more important to the context than the choice of spelling for a single word of that statement. Regardless of spelling, the word needn't always imply bad things, and needn't always be treated that way.

I don't know how we are allowed rainbow flashing post icons for fgt but get banned for ill-thought out use of the word "nigger". I know that slavery was a lot worse than persecution of homosexuals, but that was ages ago. You shouldn't be traumatised about something which happened before you were even born. Both words were originally used with similar amounts of hate, even if the circumstances which accompanied their use weren't the same.
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Originally Posted by T0ribush View Post
Why do white dudes get super offended by the word nigger, I seriously see this way more often than black folks getting offended. Is it a guilt thing? Do they not want others to perpetuate what they did when yelling the word? Black people should be offended not any other race, black dudes don' want you to get offended for them. We should be seriously asking the Black Community in TB.

Like how many black dudes are commenting on this thread and how man have black friends?

I actually asked my black friend about this in highschool. He said that he doen't mind people using the word 'nigger/a' because it doesn't make him look stupid, just you (the person saying it.) I think that is a strong argument here. I don't know if you will take my testimony for anything but there it is.