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Originally Posted by MintCat View Post
To ban "faggot" is to follow the idea that general hate speech should be banned. Now, that simply can't be done.

...what? why not? are you saying you want hate speech on toribash?
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Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
...what? why not? are you saying you want hate speech on toribash?

Of course not.

The doubts I have about that is the problem determining what's hate speech and what's not. Obviously, anything derogatory counts, but where does it end?

Hate speech - In law, hate speech is any speech, gesture or conduct, writing, or display which is forbidden because it may incite violence or prejudicial action against or by a protected individual or group, or because it disparages or intimidates a protected individual or group.

Intimidation is actually pretty broad. You can intimidate without the use of derogatory words with clever psychology. You see it in the discussion board all the time.

It's much easier to list out the words that should be banned, rather than generalizing hate speech, which could carry out some complications.

But look, the discussion started out on whether or not we should keep the ban on "nigger". It turns out that a lot of us are opposed to all kinds of hate speech. Would it be so bad to discuss which words should be banned?
Last edited by MintCat; Dec 1, 2015 at 01:08 AM.
Honestly I think the entire idea of banned words is ridiculous. I don't believe that words, or even opinions (for example Cowmeat's "I hate all Muslims" thing) should be banned outright. I believe that anyone should be able to say and express just about anything, and that everyone else should also be able to judge them according to what they say and express - if somebody is a racist homophobic twit, everyone else is more than welcome to not want to associate with that person. That being said, harassment should still be punished. There's a huge difference between saying "I hate Muslims" or "put the niggers back in the cotton fields" or "God hates fags" or any of that, and actively singling out and harassing members of those minority groups. Let people say and express whatever they want, just don't let them bully others because of their own prejudices.
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Originally Posted by MintCat View Post
Of course not.

The doubts I have about that is the problem determining what's hate speech and what's not. Obviously, anything derogatory counts, but where does it end?

Hate speech - In law, hate speech is any speech, gesture or conduct, writing, or display which is forbidden because it may incite violence or prejudicial action against or by a protected individual or group, or because it disparages or intimidates a protected individual or group.

Intimidation is actually pretty broad. You can intimidate without the use of derogatory words with clever psychology. You see it in the discussion board all the time.

It's much easier to list out the words that should be banned, rather than generalizing hate speech, which could carry out some complications.

But look, the discussion started out on whether or not we should keep the ban on "nigger". It turns out that a lot of us are opposed to all kinds of hate speech. Would it be so bad to discuss which words should be banned?

so you're saying instead of deciding to let the mods draw an arbitrary (but reasonable) line in the sand, we should just say "fuck it" and let people spout whatever shitty opinions they want? simply because you personally can't distinguish hate speech from normal banter?
shmevin eats smegma
Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
so you're saying instead of deciding to let the mods draw an arbitrary (but reasonable) line in the sand, we should just say "fuck it" and let people spout whatever shitty opinions they want? simply because you personally can't distinguish hate speech from normal banter?

Could you please avoid picking apart posts to make them seem like they're ill-spoken? It's pretty obvious you're just trying (note "trying") to flame him.

Originally Posted by Risk View Post
Honestly I think the entire idea of banned words is ridiculous. I don't believe that words, or even opinions (for example Cowmeat's "I hate all Muslims" thing) should be banned outright. I believe that anyone should be able to say and express just about anything, and that everyone else should also be able to judge them according to what they say and express - if somebody is a racist homophobic twit, everyone else is more than welcome to not want to associate with that person. That being said, harassment should still be punished. There's a huge difference between saying "I hate Muslims" or "put the niggers back in the cotton fields" or "God hates fags" or any of that, and actively singling out and harassing members of those minority groups. Let people say and express whatever they want, just don't let them bully others because of their own prejudices.

I'd generally agree with this statement, but my generation seems to have developed a need for attention and will pretend to be singled out over literally anything, including their reports being ignored for them being too sensitive. In an ideal world, this would be perfect, but ours is so completely out of reach from perfect that this ideology will just cause more complaints from whiney little shits.
Last edited by Grohenbird; Dec 1, 2015 at 08:21 AM. Reason: <24 hour edit/bump
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Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
so you're saying instead of deciding to let the mods draw an arbitrary (but reasonable) line in the sand, we should just say "fuck it" and let people spout whatever shitty opinions they want? simply because you personally can't distinguish hate speech from normal banter?

No, I'm merely pushing the discussion forward, as it seems a fair number of people (including you) feel that all derogatory words should be treated the same.

I really hadn't hoped to get this much involved in the matter, but it seems you just want to over-exaggerate anything I say for the sake of winning the argument. And I'll be honest, I'm not sure what you're arguing for any more.

How about we just ban "faggot" too and not give two shits about context.
im clearly arguing that ALL slurs should be banned and hate speech should be moderated reasonably. there is literally no reason to use these words. no benefit can come from using them, AND they can hurt people, so why would you defend it unless youve never been a victim of hate speech?

just the fact that you used the word "faggot" in your post along with my reasonable assumption that you havent had that word used to tear down your whole fucking IDENTITY and destroy your SELF ESTEEM makes me nauseous because i know you don't give a fuck about the people that happens to. i know its hard to accept for you straight males but there are words certain groups of people can say that you can't. sorry. but it's not a big fucking deal. don't scream censorship when the mods want you to stop calling people racial slurs.

why is it that, because i want to feel accepted and welcome in a community ive contributed in for nearly eight years, i'm suddenly attacking you?
Last edited by boStaff; Dec 1, 2015 at 12:45 PM. Reason: less vitriol
shmevin eats smegma
Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
i know its hard to accept for you straight males but there are words certain groups of people can say that you can't.



So what you are saying that different people should have different rights determined by their sexuality and gender (also skin color implied)? That's insane, you are literally arguing FOR racism and sexism. Also, all straight males are Hitlers (doubleHitlers if they are white) and automatically oppress everyone elses rights, RIGHT?.

"im clearly arguing that ALL slurs should be banned"

Get off tumblr and have a conversation with a sane person once in a while and see where it gets you, try it.
They might say,

"wow, you're being a pussy",

But that isn't hate speech, now is it?
It's just that sometimes people are cunts, assholes, knobends or asshats, and sometimes you should call them that. Not saying it's glorious or adviced, just that slurs "have their place" in normal human interaction. Saying "Stop being a cunt", isn't the worst thing somebody can do to another person, nor is it even really bad.

Nobody is arguing for the word faggot being "allowed", but an outright ban on a word is a discussion of its own.
As Louis CK said pretty well "I wouldn't call a gay person a faggot, unless he was being one".


Also, trigger warning.
Last edited by cowmeat; Dec 1, 2015 at 02:30 PM.
Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
just the fact that you used the word "faggot" in your post along with my reasonable assumption that you havent had that word used to tear down your whole fucking IDENTITY and destroy your SELF ESTEEM makes me nauseous because i know you don't give a fuck about the people that happens to.

This is a discussion. Look at the context of how he used 'faggot'. Was he directing the word at anyone? No. He used it because he wanted to make a point - 'where does the censorship stop'. Does it stop at 'faggot'? Does it stop at 'retard'? Does it stop at 'pussy'? Because a word may offend someone (even when it's not targeted or used with insulting intent (just like how he used 'faggot')), does that mean all of these words should be banned from use? That's what he's saying. Now, if you truly are saying that all these words should be banned, I've gotta say, I think that's a bit of a naive and childish sentiment.

Originally Posted by boStaff View Post
so why would you defend it unless youve never been a victim of hate speech?

He's explained why. Because context. It doesn't matter that you use a word, it's how you use it. If you've been ignoring this point then you've been ignoring the basis of this entire discussion.
Last edited by Ele; Dec 1, 2015 at 02:16 PM.
You should have the right to express your opinion through words without being punished.
You should be able to express the way you feel about something/someone.
There is a thin line between this and offending people directly.
I do agree it depends on context of the sentence, however.
But come on now.
If you find a word offensive, shrug it off.
If you get offended, shrug it off.
Now, if you get constantly bullied, that's a different story.
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