i almost posted huge another wall of text, but put everything else aside, one thing you're doing wrong is you care enough to remember after the game who in your team done what wrong and not what i could have possibly done better to MAYBE have better impact on the game.
you accept the fact you maybe could have done something better, but judging by your words you put zero effort into actually trying to figure out what went wrong for YOU, even tho you always remember if someone fed a lane or not. i dont remember the last time i had a solo ranked game where a single person or even two getting fed out of their mind would be a big enough of a factor for one team to straight up win a game off of that, but i do remember all of the times where i did stupid things in lane and outside of it which could have cost me the game and i very much appreciate it when people dont start going batshit insane on me for making one mistake and making the game 10 minutes longer for no apparent reason.
and honestly even if someone does like shit in lane or randomly dcs for 15 minutes, the game is 200% fucking more fun to play if no one says a bad word to that person EVEN if that ends up costing you the game, as long as everyone actually tries their best. if you see a person going in on an enemy laner 5 times in a row and dying 1v1 going "that lucker living with 2 hp every time"(boxbox please), yeah that person is probably very god damn stupid and it sucks for your team, but even with him you have a small chance to win the game, if not and he gives up or tilts and rages or whatever - doesn't matter, the enemy team has to deal with this kind of people just as much, and every time someone on your team gets a few kills in a row, the same exact situation happens in the enemy team, everyone starts going crazy for no reason.
if you feel that dealing with this is just too much to be having fun - there's absolutely no reason to even play the game then, there's a lot of other games where you depend on other factors rather than random people you get queued up with. or you can only play in a premade of 5 people, since we all know you can't really blame a person you know like this so it would make things easier, i guess.
Last edited by leyz; Feb 27, 2014 at 10:38 AM.