Ladger: i can relate. Not that i play ingame much anymore, and when i do, It's aikido, which 9/10 times i win at. I have, however, played about 2000 games of judo, and long waiting was annoying. The black belt server seemed to have the power to stop people from leaving. I never saw less than twelve people in there.
hkp: no. I've been moderator of two clan boards, that's it. I'm just not biased against moderators for doing their job.