Sometimes it best to keep your mouth closed and not provoke anything because you'll be the one to get hurt and it will only be your fault. Ok, it's me and her, and you're a funny little growth trying to mimic love. That's all.
Maybe state that, instead of watching it snowball and get bigger and bigger. You pose a slight thread I'd say, and this is me putting you in your place. For my her sake, as well as mine.
I don't know where or how you get these strange ideas that you're hurting me. I'm just making sure the one I love is safe, and I know you'll say something stupid now so I'll just wait.