Re: Who said girls can't play toribash? :D
And somehow, I find that post to also be completely nonconstructive.
You see, it's not a good thing to merely emote. You have to share your feelings, and talk about them with us. Instead of just showing that you're sad, you should say "Veb, what you said made me feel like a child, and I have lost a lot of my self esteem. What you said was hurtful to me, and I really think I'd feel better not just about myself, but about my actions if you'd apologize to me."
And then get flamed for being such a little girly man :P
But the flamers would get yelled at for being mean to the little girly man, and you'd be fine.