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Originally Posted by SoBscout View Post
Title.
I know it's something that a lot of people would laugh about, but as I look deeper, maybe there's more stuff going on then I thought.
I've seen alot of my friends get cyberbullied when I'm looking, alot of them get really hurt or want to commit suicide.
What are your guys thoughts on this? I've never thought of this as some sort of serious matter, but what I've seen lately really makes me feel bad for the person on the other side. Has this ever happened to you?

I think this whole "cyberbully" shit is stupid. If you don't take it to heart, which you shouldn't, then you'll be fine. It's not like you're getting the shit kicked out of you, so why should you care? If I was "cyberbullied" so to say, I would shrug it off and laugh. Fuck the haters, laugh at them, block them, end of story.
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What festus said.
Haters gonna hate.
Theres no way to stop trolls, but most of them are idiots.
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You just have to ignore it. People have their problems and feel they have to fuck with someone else to feel better for them selves.
Lopsin said it.

Originally Posted by Lopsin View Post
Haters gonna hate.
Theres no way to stop trolls, but most of them are idiots.

So over-dramatized and superficial that they're making a tv show about it.
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You're ignoring the fact that the most harm of bullying is not physical harm, but psychological harm.

People are naturally social creatures, and one person insulting you repeatively has a very negative impact on a person. Eventually, you start to wonder if this stuff is true, and that's when the bullying really hits home.

And it's not as easy to avoid as you would think. All it takes is one occurance to possibly harm another person. To avoid this one occurance, you would have to isolate yourself from the very beginning, which is not going to happen because, for the majority, people use the internet to socialize. Frequently, this "repetetive" bullying, is actually multiple barbs thrown by one or more people in one occurance. It's also very common that the person cyber bullying you, used to be a close friend or somebody you know. This makes it all the harder to avoid/ignore them.

Regardless of the medium, bullying is always a serious issue. Regardless of whether or not you think you wouldn't be bothered by the bullying, doesn't mean somebody else wouldn't. It's a very painful experience emotionally. I speak from experience unfortunately. Suspected to have contributed to my anxiety and depression.
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Originally Posted by Boredpayne View Post
So over-dramatized and superficial that they're making a tv show about it.

What else is new in today's black and white society?
It's really just affecting people who lack the self-esteem or just general sureness of themselves. Someone who is completely sure of what they're are/aren't good at and what they do/don't look like will not five a flying foop.
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If it's in the forums, Report them.
If it's on facebook, Block/remove them.
If that angers them and it gets physical, Beat the living shit out of them with the nearest thing on the ground that can be used as a weapon.

Following these simple steps, You can be happy again.

Enjoy.

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Originally Posted by Doclan View Post
What would keep you from NOT ignoring them?


Unless everyone in the staff hates you and you did something to cause the bullying from a member of the staff (In example, being sarcastic, annoying everyone, being an smartass, etc) then it is your fault, otherwise you could simply report that person to a higher up and they would have a "talk", not a punishment but most likely that person would keep distance from you.

If that person is not part of the staff then you can simply report their post/PMs if he broke the rules (Racial insults, religion oriented insults, etc) but if he did not, anyone could simply ignore that person, from either the forums, in game or in IRC.

Haha, staff generally don't go around making sure people aren't "mean", usually they just join in.

Besides that, if "just ignore them" really worked then we would have no bullying in any form...
Cyber Bullying isn't the problem, it's the people getting bullied.
I mean, if you have problems in real life and want to escape in the intrnet but get even more problems there, why shouldn't you start thinking of changing yourself instead of whining about the world.
Once, a friend of mine saw a password of a classmate noone really likes because he is a suck-up and an over all annoying person. He told it me, I told it another friend, he told it another friend ...
Some days later someone actually logged in his account for a site like facebook and changed everything like his avatar and wrote some "funny" shit all over the place. The account got banned in a few minutes and everyone had a good laugh, until that guy contacted his mother, our teacher and the police. True story, some months later a police man came to our school to tell us something about cyber bullying for two hours.

Noone would have taken that opportunity if that guy wasn't such an idiot.