yeah pounds, im an americano
Roughly 112 kg deadlift, 70 kg bench press, and 55 kg overhead lift
Also I agree with the dumbbell thing, I can bench 150 with a barbell but when I tried two 50s with dumbbells I couldnt do it, it was weird, but I was like w/e.
And the shoulder thing explains the whole holding a weight directly in front of you, because after I did it my shoulders wanted to cry.