Originally Posted by
6tate9
yeah it's a zayex thread
i think relationships (mostly referring to the classic teen dating shit) are retarded and never last, no point in stressing yourself out over someone who won't matter after high school. and also everyone complains about heartbreak and etc and it just seems so dumb, as someone with several friends with benefits i can say it's better than dating because no one gets hurt and i hate getting tied down l0l. save dating until your 30's.
opinions?
Relationships are retarded?
Well, maybe in your case sure, but other people find that an emotional attachment and attraction is much more enjoyable than sport-fucking.
Sure, most of the girls you date in middle or high school are probably not going to stick around for more than 4 months or get to the whole marriage ordeal. Okay, sure it's fine that you have several friends with benefits and you don't care about dating until your 30s. It's also okay that you think you're being tied down by women, and that's your own thing.
This however, does not justify you telling people to copy your habits just 'so they don't get heartbroken' and shit. Heartbreak is a part of relationships, it's going to happen whether you like it or not. Especially at 14, 15, 16, 17 and such, the frontal lobe of the brain has not fully finished developing, and your emotional side is probably still not too good, so teen relationships are HIGHLY volatile. That's part of growing up though, you get the experience of being in a relationship, and you grow more sensitive to the other person's needs, BOTH physically and emotionally.
Originally Posted by
hawkesnightmare
High school relationships are fantastic practice, even if the two people involved genuinely believe they found their soul mate on the first try.
It's most likely a physical attraction.
Originally Posted by
hawkesnightmare
Most religions frown upon polygamy.
Polygamy is the marriage of multiple people.
A poly relationship is a relationship that is emotionally involved with multiple people. If religion's your first moral guidebook, seriously consult a doctor.
Originally Posted by
hawkesnightmare
you may also get lucky and find that person from high school that you end up marrying. I know a few people who that has happened to, and they are all the happiest people I know. As of right now, it looks like I'm going that way with my partner, and I met him/her in high school. We've been dating for two years and have no intention of stopping now.
If you feel as if that's working out for /you/, great. Others may feel differently, if you feel as if you're emotionally and mentally ready, go at it.
Originally Posted by
nargles
manlypotato thinks he matters by banning me sry
ok but yeah i get what you mean and of course tons of people find their soul mate in high school and etc, but in general i think it's a waste of youth to just look for love
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no it's because id rather fuck a bunch of different girls then get stuck with one who ill just end up resenting later, i tried monogamy once and it was lame. nice try at passive-aggressive insults tho
You're a disgusting piece of human body waste. Soulmates are a stupid and cheesy idea, sure. Some people fully believe they find the emotional partner they want for the rest of their life at 16. Really, you should treat all relationships with your full if you really do feel okay with that, but it's stupid to get emotionally attached to a-lot of people like that. That does not however justify you just going around sport-fucking and then calling 'normal' relationships stupid. Honestly, you could at-least learn that
you are not committing to a polygamous or poly relationship. You feel no emotional attraction to the person, and show no signs of hoping to. Nice try at being a typical one-night-stand douche.