Dueling is skill based gambling, meaning you are the deciding factor of whether or not you will win or lose. If you're not prepared to lose what you're dueling for, or to counter what you consider "gay play" then you shouldn't be dueling.
Gay play is just a generalization for moves that are difficult to counter. You're supposed to try your best to win a duel, so why is it socially unacceptable to use certain moves? You have every right to lift, shovel, leg grab, run, skeet, or point hold your opponent, especially if they are unable to defeat you despite it.
Last edited by sirl; Aug 19, 2014 at 10:37 PM.