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Originally Posted by Hattersin View Post
Very tiny answer to a tiny part of what you said above here

Pretty much everybody uses language to communicate what 'group' they're part of in some way.
Groups/subcultures/communities whatever you want to call it, have different words used frequently, such as your Tumblr users spewing 'literally' all over the place.
I'm not arguing for either position here, but I guess the benefit could be seen as a way of expressing where or to what you identify yourself.. loosely.

Hmm... I can see your point, but it kind of feels like you're grasping at straws here. No subculture is defined by it's usage of one word in particular.

If the rule was in some way suppressing a group of people and their ability to identify in a certain way, sure, maybe the rule should be reconsidered. Is this the case? No, not at all.

It feels more to me like people are being pedantic - what's the harm etc etc? Well, it may be minimal? But what's the benefit?

I like your point and I somewhat agree. I just don't think it's relevant in this situation.
Originally Posted by Fee View Post
Can I just ask one simple and direct question? What is your urgent need to use the word? What is the benefit it brings to your linguistic arsenal?

that's a really loaded question.

it's not about this particular word - if we're going to censor words and ignore context my question would be where is that line drawn? okay, we can't say 'nigger' that's fine. i'm not going to lobby to keep it around because other than the occasional humorous situation i don't use it. can we say faggot? when does that get outlawed? i do have a problem with it because it's limiting speech and most of the people being affected by that rule are not using it in a derogatory manner anyway. the people that use it in a derogatory manner are going to do so either way, and they'll be punished accordingly. personally i don't ban people simply for using the word or any offensive word until i've seen the context.
In my experience, whenever I've seen people use the word "nigger" or "nigga" in game, a person or multiple people will jump on them with "that's racist, reporting" -- in an immature, childlike way. From what I can tell, most people aren't actually offended, but will jump at the chance to piss someone off just because the word is banned and be used against them. I've hardly ever seen the word be used in the "correct racist context", but it gets called racist every time because it's a banable word.

I personally think the word "nigga" being banned for racism is wholly ridiculous. Not only do blacks call each other nigga, but I've seen many instances of whites using it with blacks with no problem. I don't think this word has ever been used in an actual racist, offensive context. If someone fully intends to be a racist, hateful fuck, they're not gonna call a black person a nigga. It'll be nigger.

So yes. Context is everything and at the very least, nigga shouldn't be banned.
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But think about it, there are Young kids on here and even if (Some how) the majority of the toribash community agree to clear Nigger, no single person can EVER make the sweeping assumption that the parents of an average kid will agree with that also. Face it, we don't want to be teaching kids words like that anyway and worse, if they see usage of Nigger and establish the user ISN'T punished for it - Never mind the fact that that kid might already know Nigger as a derogatory term - that might even make them question themselves as to why it's actually a bad word. Because kids are easily manipulated into thinking in a certain way especially if their role model claims to be older than them (One can not say that plenty of +18's play Toribash)"So what better way to do that than to allow the usage of it in a game that has plenty of younger developing kids to pick it up!!??"You see what I mean. As far as I'm concerned, no one above me has raised this other aspect either and it must be said that; it is rather a fair point.
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Originally Posted by KiTFoX View Post
that's a really loaded question.

It wasn't intended to be. I'm genuinely curious about a viable situation wherein it's necessary to use it?

it's not about this particular word - if we're going to censor words and ignore context my question would be where is that line drawn?

In fairness this isn't something I really considered. Let me explain my point of view, so where I'm coming from is more apparent. I'm trying to imagine viewing the forums/ingame/ etc from an external perspective. Where a potential user is going to view the content and decide if it's the kind of community they would feel comfortable being a part of. It's similar to you yourself making changes to certain staff members sigs to keep-up-appearances essentially.

Like I said, I didn't consider the idea of where is the line then drawn with offensive language. This is where as I think everyone agrees context is crucial. However I still think that having a small amount of black-listed words is in no way detrimental. And then dealing with other questionable words/phrases on a case-by-case basis.

Edit: Also just so I'm clear, I'm not suggesting a ban on sight to anyone using the word. Again, context would be important in replying with a measured reaction. Whether that ranges from a deleted post, to a warning or a ban depends on the situation. I'm just of the opinion that certain words should be censored in terms of general decency and image.
Last edited by Fee; Nov 26, 2015 at 05:26 PM.
"I want to burn a fag after breakfast"

This will surely upset someone. I can almost promise you that they will not be from the UK. Should we ban whoever said it because they used the word "Fag". I don't think so. However, let me be clear, we are still perfectly in the right to ask them not to use it. Hell, infract them, but don't ban them flat out. There is a middleground here and we should use it, damnit!
Why should you get offended by this word?
Most people that use it ingame or in IRC say it to crack jokes I know trust me I've been there when someone calls me a nigger I never got mad there was always someone who does not like the word or is offended by it even though people don't like the word IT IS STILL THERE plus you cant change the fact kids(10-13) will still use it and yes there has been a lot of complaints from people to staff but that's there problem if you cant deal with the word being out there then why should you even complain?
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Originally Posted by Ele View Post
Currently, there's a hard-line attitude amongst staff against any usage of the word 'nigger'. Use it and you'll get infracted or banned. I've been cleared to start an open discussion on this rule, and if enough people agree then this rule might change.

My argument is that context is everything. It doesn't matter that you use the word, what matters is how you use it. There are certain contexts in which somebody might use the word when they aren't using it to offend anyone. For example, a friend might say to another friend "What up, my nigger". In the context of that usage, I'm sure nobody actually believes there's any hatred behind that word, nobody believes that guy is being racist to his friend. How can we tell that? We can tell by the context.

Should we be banning and infracting people for racism in situations when they clearly aren't being racist? Racism is all about being prejudiced. My point is that if there's no prejudice behind the usage of the word (which you can determine by the context it was used in), then it's not racist to use it. It then follows that we shouldn't punish people for racism when they're not being racist. I'm calling for common sense moderation of the word, instead of censorship.

What are your thoughts?

rather than label the word to racism then, we'll categorize it into insulting other members or inappropriate language. because the problem seems to be the reason why these people are being banned or infracted rather than the word itself. censorship, that's a good one. everyone has free speech, no one is saying this word is banned or blacklisted, but with free speech comes consequences. people have been told for years, if you're going to use this word, use it in a private server amongst friends. if you get reported for saying 'nigger' joking or no you're going to get a punishment.

"muhhh political correctness why can't I say whatever the hell I want without repercussions??" because that's not how the world works and you know it. the majority of cases of people saying nigger in game or on the forums have almost always been used as an insult, to call it racism is incorrect and there lies the problem. from now on, we as staff should label actual racism cases as racism and insulting/harrassment as such, even if racial slurs are being used.

I'll agree, just saying the word isn't racist. but it is generally deemed as offensive or used in an insulting manner. even in jokes, these jokes are in poor taste using this word. let's face it, it's a trigger word and not everyone is okay with logging in and seeing a bunch of nigger jokes. it's about what's best for everyone. on one side, those who want to use the word for jokes are restricted to using it privately. on the other, those who don't want to see that word be brought up do not have to see it publicly.

is there any issue with that?
Originally Posted by ImmortalPig View Post
That's true buddy.

But then again it's true of any word, for example was I being friendly when I called you buddy, or trying to belittle you and be condescending?

Unless you can show that nigger has a unique property that causes such ambiguity, I don't think there is any reason to ban it because of that.

the word isn't banned, read above.

when one want's to make it obvious they are being sarcastic and condescending in text they will do so in the most obvious way possible, as ele and you do sometimes when you post. the word doesn't have a unique property, but it's generally more clear when it's a joke and when it's not.
Originally Posted by Gbleek View Post
In my experience, whenever I've seen people use the word "nigger" or "nigga" in game, a person or multiple people will jump on them with "that's racist, reporting" -- in an immature, childlike way. From what I can tell, most people aren't actually offended, but will jump at the chance to piss someone off just because the word is banned and be used against them. I've hardly ever seen the word be used in the "correct racist context", but it gets called racist every time because it's a banable word.

I personally think the word "nigga" being banned for racism is wholly ridiculous. Not only do blacks call each other nigga, but I've seen many instances of whites using it with blacks with no problem. I don't think this word has ever been used in an actual racist, offensive context. If someone fully intends to be a racist, hateful fuck, they're not gonna call a black person a nigga. It'll be nigger.

So yes. Context is everything and at the very least, nigga shouldn't be banned.

yes you can get banned for saying the word nigger, you can also get warned an infracted. at this point it depends on the moderator, but as of late it has been brought up that these types of words should have an across the board way of being handled.

also, restrict the discussion to the root word: "nigger" the slang term created from this is an entirely different beast. let's focus on this, as I'm sure if there is an announcement both words will be touched upon.
Originally Posted by Wooq View Post
Why should you get offended by this word?
Most people that use it ingame or in IRC say it to crack jokes I know trust me I've been there when someone calls me a nigger I never got mad there was always someone who does not like the word or is offended by it even though people don't like the word IT IS STILL THERE plus you cant change the fact kids(10-13) will still use it and yes there has been a lot of complaints from people to staff but that's there problem if you cant deal with the word being out there then why should you even complain?

why should you get offended by anything? just because you personally don't get offended doesn't make that person right to call you a nigger in an insulting manner. if you weren't offended then you probably didn't report it. this is for the people who are offended when being insulted with the word nigger, or the people who don't want to see people saying this word publicly when logging in to the forums, or in-game.
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Originally Posted by cocacobra View Post
Oh my god. Fee the answer to your question is when you're among friends and when it would increase the comedic value of something you're talking about. I personally don't drop the hard R because it just feels so much worse but really all this political sensitivity bullshit needs to stop. If someones using it to be an aggressive dickhead towards someone obviously throw them a big ol' ban but if someones using it in a joking way then deal with it. I thought toribash was going to be my shelter from all this what are your pronouns bullshit.

Well for a start, among friends is not the same as a forum with a userbase made up different nationalities, backgrounds, beliefs and age groups. Censoring yourself, only slightly, in an environment like this is hardly a heavy burden.

The whole - "It's political correctness gone mad!" argument is dumb. This is the real world, we all have to moderate ourselves around others.