Heres what I did, I had Toribash 3.72 which was the first version of Toribash I got, I had this problem but forgot what I did to fix it, no that I got 3.8 I had the same problem, but what I did was go into the 3.72 file and copy the file tb_long.dat into the 3.8 file, worked like a charm. If you haven't gotten toribash before, I don't know what you could do, as I forgot what I did...

i cant start multiplayer game...
i see only "not connected" message...and thats it ...

im not sure what to do , and whats the problem ... :S

Have you tried reinstalling Toribash?

Do you have a firewall what could cause the problem?

yes i try that, but hmh...i just realized that i can join private room..and one more thing that may help to solve my problem is that i cant see "time" for punch... in the up middle spot of the screen ...

tnx anyway and sorry about my "perfect" language...

and no - no active firewall

Oh then its about your QI.
You see, there are lots of types of servers. Theer are beginner servers, semipro and pro servers.
For the beginner servers you need to be white belt, for the semi pros you need to be maximum brown belt, and for the pro servers you need to be black belt and up.

yup THATS IT ... im NOOB ! .... sorry for this "king" of dumb questions ... and thank you very much for your answer....

I'm going to see if this works.... oh wait... I deleted my 3.72 folder... thanks whoever said to do that.

EDIT: oh i get it now... rename the 3.8 folder to 3.72.