Bruce, my condolences for your grandma, I know exactly how you feel, my grandma died too, and I lost most of my most important family members due to aging/drugs.
Unfortunately, this is no excuse to threaten someone(even Pops, ye know?), specially in a forum. I know you hate him, and stuff(tired to type), but don't ever act like this again. Okay? ♥
Also Pops, do I really need to write you this lecture? Stop acting like a Zayex.