I understand your point of view as you been here a while longer than me and must like Toribash the way it started. But I don't see it as over customizing, more bettering itself with new ideas that continue to grip and interest players and hopefully encourage new ones to arrive.
I'm happy to see changes made, and have really enjoyed someone of the ones that have been implemented while I am here, such as Bumpmaps and flames.
There will obviously be a limit to what can be done with Toribash, but I don't think it has been reached yet.