Bullys are a bunch of cowards, that don't have self confidence at all and demostrating their "power" as Xtreme said, To weaker people.
That's why they called cowards. They cannot bully people in their level and they bully weaker people. Well if you getting bullyied you can simply ignore them, but if they abuse you you can contact kitfox an adult, or a friend that it's physical enough to deal with it.

The worst for me is that the school counsils doesn't do anything about that problem.
I got bullyied on my early years and was outminded, i didn't knew how to deal with them, Until i got some advices from tougher guys, with high confidence, and enegretic.

I dealed with them by talking smart, learned how to shut mouths, example (You think you can become a cool guy by mocking me? Look at your self, you're a poor excuse of life", But if they tryed to attack me, I always defend myself because I'm physically tough enough, But Other people should ask help.


do not tl;dr it

@Xtreme: Ehh, you're right in some situations, and wrong in others. I was picked out to be a scapegoat because i stood out from the masses, in that i disliked soccer, was more intelligent than most (which honestly isn't a lot said), and because i liked cheese. CHEESE. I got mocked because i FUCKING LIKE CHEESE. I still do so, but holy fuck mate, is that supposed to be a weakness?!

As for now though, i'm tired of discussing this. It's not going anywhere, and there's too many bad memories involved. =P

Can you now deal with a bully, shook?

Get ripped and beat the fuckers up.

That is the kind of motivation you need to get fit.

@PlayerID57: If i had to, i could deal with one guy. Problem is, it was 8 relentless guys before. They kept pestering me even if i ignored them, telling them off did nothing, neither did smart-mouthing or threats. Talking to a teacher helped for maybe a day or two, but then things went back to normal. Worst fucking school ever. Even the small kids were total dickwads, and i couldn't do anything about it because i was older, bigger and stronger than them. But wouldn't that mean the exact opposite? Yes, usually, but in that school, the older kids were expected to be mature towards the tiny trollspawn. If i hadn't been in school at one time, one of them would've received a pretty rough treatment. Smaller and weaker than me, yes, but if you were being pestered by the same kids over and over, physically and verbally, you'd eventually take action as well.

Problem is, whenever i struck any of my dumbfuck classmates, all their friends immediately went "HAY WHY YOU HIT MY DUMB FUCKNUGGET FRIEND? >:C" when it was crystal fucking clear that he brought it upon himself. Did it help? By the gods no it didn't, everything continued the way it was. Even if i had beaten one of them senseless, i'd surely have been jumped by a group of them later on. As i mentioned earlier, i've never seen any of them take a fight to someones face by themselves. Preferrably from the back, and in a group. Fucking cowards. I'm easily scared myself, but at least i have enough decency to not attack someone from behind.

Luckily for me though, nobody acts like a dickwad in my current class in high school, so i don't have to put up with shit like that any more. It's fantastic, really.

Actually, bullies feel inferior towards their 'victims'. The bullies get the feeling that they are weak themselves. The bullies can sense that the victim can plumber them in a shithole with just a few words. However, the bullies dont like that, so the bullies are trying to reverse the situation. Bullying the victim and making feel the victim inferior towards the bullies. The bullies feel 'safe' that way.

Seriously, that happened alot to me.

I've been making fun of a bully that's in my class because he's been picking on some of my friends and classmates lately.

Seriously, got him pissed 3 times in one day, 2 today.

2/3 times he got so raegmode that he stood up and started yelling at me in the middle of the class.

I told him to punch me, he just sat down.

Are you just using natural as a buzzword for good? Because just because something is part of the so-called natural order of things this does not justify it.

When we are able to see the reasons why people bully ( people told a few in this thread)
It becomes allot less natural to be bullying and even more strange.
I think bullies are "dumb" actually ridiculously "dumb", because no human being likes to be pestered and bullied, except for masochists and even that works in a different way.
Ive never been bullied myself, but i have a few friends who have been bullied. These guys are all nice and kind of pacifists. A bully is someone who feels powerless in his own mysery and tries to reflect his mysery on another person and then be that persons god to feel how it would feel to regain control over their own life. In my eyes they are just trying to numb their own pain, these kind of people are a step closer to the Neanderthal.
And are actually the ones that need help.

Is it natural because it happens? We do have a consiouss and the abillity to learn, so lets make it something un-natural.