...Wow, This thread is embarrassing. Not only to the majority of the people who posted here, but to the community as a whole. Just the thing we need, a "Jeepers, I don't understand/trust those gay's" thread, complete with homophobia and bad jokes to top it off. I'm not trying to say that you all aren't entitled to your opinion on the topic and that, in reality, every person is different so maybe I shouldn't comment on your experience. But I will say this, the general concusses among the rest of the word is that Gay people don't really "decide" to be gay. People experiment, get confused, whatever, but you don't just wake up one day and say "hey, I think I like people of the same sex." As for the whole, gay guys who aren't really gay thing, give it a shot for a week. Go out and act gay just to get chicks, I'm guessing that the exile placed on you by a large portion of society would convince you that it is much easier to get girl by being an ass hole like every other guy on the planet.
Enter "Deady must be gay" posts...now.