Your argument makes sense, and I agree JSnuff. But BoredPayne's does not, he only makes a distinction based on how common it is, not by the meaning.
On a side note, how much do gay people care about people using the term "fag"?
Uhhh...no. If society collectively reinterprets nigger as just a casual way of saying "I don't like this," it's still racist, it still has the stigma, it still has the potential to hurt and incite violence. Equating homosexuality with dislike is pretty obviously offensive.
The word is inherently homophobic.
I'm sorry you did not fully understand my post. Thankfully, JSnuff was able to explain it to you.
I have no lead in to what I'm about to say:
Like a lot of people would say "Oh he drives a Prius? Is he a fag?!", when he means that the car is more characteristic of a homosexual than the car just being stupid.
Whereas, in contrast, we don't say something like "Wow. You score 18 points in the basketball game? You're 'n word' good"
I think the bigger difference is... you can make gay jokes. You can make black jokes. You can make asian jokes. But... when you make black jokes, you don't use the "n word", when you make asian jokes, you don't say the "ch***" word, but somehow, people think it's okay to say "fag" towards homosexuals.
I think there's a huge difference between those two words. One's meaning has been pretty strongly separated from it's literal meaning, whereas the other is a discriminatory word specifically used to hurt a community.
No, when a kid says, "Oh, this drink is so gay". They are not intending to offend homosexuals. They want to display hate toward the drink by equating it to something apparently negative (homosexuality).
JSnuff and you made different arguments, your argument was " if stupid was used ... to the extent faggot is used", clearly saying that it's merely a question of how often it is used.
That said, if someone steals something and you say "you are such a nigger", around here at least, no one will get mad and say "no please don't perpetuate that sterotype!". If someone got really good marks on a test and you say "wow you really went asian mode there" then no one will get mad and say "no please don't perpetuate that sterotype!!".
I want you to read this over several times, and then explain to me why it's not offensive to homosexuals.
Please continue to explain to me what arguments I made, because I just can't understand my own thoughts without you to guide me through them.
Oh, well that makes it okay then!
Most black people would be seriously hurt by the use of that word. If you don't recognize that you are socially unaware.
Either you are a prodigy at poorly expressing yourself, or you changed your mind half way through and decided to abandon your poor argument, you decide.