Play soccer.
YOU WILL GET ADDICTED. I just became a substitute for a Premier League in Greece, Sparta FC ^_^ We are done for the season though.
Also, loving the Disturbed avvy.
My other advice: Start hanging out in nearby towns.
There has to be a girl for you, and if you are anything a girl will dare to look at (meaning NOT ugly), I am sure your chances are pretty good.
How old are you? I felt life had no purpose until high school, and even then it was a tad boring. Don’t worry and wait it out, girls, cars and money come soon, my son.
Really, though try to start soccer, I need surgery for my knees but until then I am still kickin’. When you love it, pain means nothing. Just a mere distraction. I play saxophone for parties and events too, and I played drums, so stick with that. Hope I helped.