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Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
Are you really trying to say that gay and faggot aren't used as insults, or are you saying that because they have multiple meanings it's okay to use them as insults?

I'm saying that your claim that 'gay' and 'faggot' are used as insults BECAUSE they are slang for homosexual is a bit ridiculous

Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
We don't use "bugger" in the states, but quick research found it has something to do about sodomy. So the fact that it's used as an insult implies there's something wrong about sodomy? I couldn't say. But again, words come to mean certain things and be used in certain ways for specific reasons. Even if you don't use the word with the intent of implying anything derogatory, you can't just ignore what it implies.

'I couldn't say' but you are such an expert on 'fag' and 'gay'!

Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
That doesn't make it right.

But it doesn't make it homophobic/racist.
Originally Posted by iLiltay View Post
racism offends a large group of people. If you say nigger in a server, not only will every black person, but every person who has an issue with racism will jump in. its not just a argument between 2 people throwing insults around. you dont understand at all.

Even though you were replying to yourself...You don't seem to understand the key point. Yes, homophobic jokes and insults are prevalent on Toribash and the internet as a whole, more-so than racism, and it's reasonable to think that less people are offended by homophobic remarks than racist ones, but what I'm saying is it shouldn't be that way. It's ignorance, plain and simple, and saying that one insult is less offensive than another is irrelevant to the conversation because where do you draw the line? Somewhere between sexism and antisemitism? You tell me.
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Originally Posted by ImmortalPig View Post
I'm saying that your claim that 'gay' and 'faggot' are used as insults BECAUSE they are slang for homosexual is a bit ridiculous

Then why are words like faggot used as insults?
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I wasnt replying to my self, I was quoting my self and linking to the comment. Anyways, its not a double standard, because they arent on the same level at all. You cant joke about a persons race on the internet without offending 2 or more people. Thats just the way it is. homosexual humor is just something popular on the gaming community, that doesnt intend any harm or insult. its Humor when its an insult thats when its a problem. you are trying to turn the jokes into the insults and make it all the same thing. If im not mistaken, racism is in someway illegal(not supported under freedom of speech.
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also insults and complements are all a matter of perspective and how that person feels about the comment. I think you should remember that.
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Originally Posted by iLiltay View Post
Anyways, its not a double standard, because they arent on the same level at all. You cant joke about a persons race on the internet without offending 2 or more people. Thats just the way it is. homosexual humor is just something popular on the gaming community, that doesnt intend any harm or insult. its Humor when its an insult thats when its a problem. you are trying to turn the jokes into the insults and make it all the same thing. If im not mistaken, racism is in someway illegal(not supported under freedom of speech.
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also insults and complements are all a matter of perspective and how that person feels about the comment. I think you should remember that.

So when someone loses a match and they simply type "gay" that's a joke? Or when during an argument someone whips out a term like faggot, that's just a joke and not an insult?

And how can "you're a faggot" ever be considered a compliment? Under certain contexts I suppose but you must be in denial if you think statements like that aren't mostly used as disparaging remarks.
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Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
So when someone loses a match and they simply type "gay" that's a joke? Or when during an argument someone whips out a term like faggot, that's just a joke and not an insult?

And how can "you're a faggot" ever be considered a compliment? Under certain contexts I suppose but you must be in denial if you think statements like that aren't mostly used as disparaging remarks.

you havent understood a word I said. if someone loses a match and they say its gay, its the lightharded homosexual sense of humor the gaming community lives in. when someone calls another a faggot its a statement toward that person with intentions of being an insult. but as I said before insults and complements and insults are all a matter of perspective. for example being called homosexual may be a an insult to one man but another man may have no issue with it for a load of other reasons. you gotta look at all the different ways this is fewed if you truely want to debate, cause your just looking at it your way. I see everything you are talking about, but you are not refering to the sense of humor, you are refering to why people can insult someone with race and be banned but not banned with homosexual insults or jokes. its simply because few people report those cases.
Originally Posted by iLiltay View Post
for example being called homosexual may be a an insult to one man but another man may have no issue with it for a load of other reasons.

I like how you used the word homosexual and not one of the derogatory or disparaging terms we've been talking about. I doubt many people want to be called faggots.

And I know a few black people who don't care if they're called a nigger. That doesn't say anything about the the majority who do care.
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Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
Ridiculous argument. The gay community hasn't suffered through enough to be treated as a real issue, is that what you mean to say?

No, I'm saying racism seems to be more of an issue because of however many
years of being treated like an nonperson/animal/thing etc. yes homophobia is bad.
no, it's not a contest of who had/has it worse.
Originally Posted by iLiltay View Post
even in sig's and avvys(nearlydead lol)..

What, you think I'm joking? wow how homophobia of you.
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Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
Then why are words like faggot used as insults?

Why is the word retarded used as an insult? you are questioning the advancement/interpretation of english slang/words whatever.
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Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
I like how you used the word homosexual and not one of the derogatory or disparaging terms we've been talking about. I doubt many people want to be called faggots.

And I know a few black people who don't care if they're called a nigger. That doesn't say anything about the the majority who do care.

look up "define faggot" its slang for a homosexual male.
look up "define lesbian" its slang for a homosexual female

if you would want to be called faggot how is homosexual any better?

its really just another meaning for such.

Nigger is a term meaning ignorant dark skinned person. I personally have an issue with nigger because its a term meant to be an insult, few dont have an issue. the term I dont have an issue with is "nigga" because it has meaning that isnt an insult.
Originally Posted by Thellian View Post
I doubt many people want to be called faggots.

yeah, the people who are way too emotionally sensitive.
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Originally Posted by NearlyDead View Post
No, I'm saying racism seems to be more of an issue because of however many
years of being treated like an nonperson/animal/thing etc. yes homophobia is bad.
no, it's not a contest of who had/has it worse.

You're treating it as though it's a contest. If you say racism is more of a problem because of it's history, you're implying that homophobia isn't as much of an issue because it doesn't have that history. Which begs the question: how much would the homosexual community need to go through to be considered much of a problem to you?
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