Secret Santa 2024
hmmm favorite place to live?

I'l say something like northern europe, Denmark Germany or England. Yes its rainy and cold, but i like looking good in clothes. So i can put on jackets and skinny jeans. Then I can go skiing in switzerland in the winter. I hope that liking jackets n stuff is an ok argument to move to a place but whatever.
Last edited by shrimp24; Dec 8, 2012 at 04:26 PM.
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sorry guys to sadden mood but i just broke up with my gf which i have a serious relationship with u guys are like my second family so can u guys tell me how can i recover from this?
Originally Posted by bluepheonix View Post
sorry guys to sadden mood but i just broke up with my gf which i have a serious relationship with u guys are like my second family so can u guys tell me how can i recover from this?

Well, that's what happens man. People change, and relationships change and end, but don't let that get you down; I can't even remember how many times I've been dumped

I just try to forget it and meet someone else. It doesn't have to be a date, just go out with friends and do something, whether it be at a club (if you're old enough), at the mall, sporting event, etc. I meet people all the time just out and about, albeit I hate people in general and don't talk to them afterwards. If you're a people person, you can meet new girls anywhere. Honestly, if you're good at small talk and opening up conversations (I always start off with some kind of witty remark, depending on the situation), you'll always have someone new to talk to.

Getting over a break up isn't easy, but if you dwell on it, it'll make things worse. Oh, and don't beg and plead your ex to come back to you, it makes you seem weak. If she needs a man, you need to be a man. Pretend you aren't really affected by the break up, and she just might turn around and go back to you.
Wow, Silent, you sure know a lot about girls.
There's a Chinese saying: "A girl's heart is like a needle in the ocean, very hard to know what she's thinking."

Though yes, I do believe that you can just seem nothing about it.
Or, (I have no idea if this works, better NOT try it out) you can go out with someone else (pretend) and make her get jealous and go back with you.
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@bluepheonix: Sorry to hear that, but these things happen. Just go out there and keep yourself busy, wallowing around in self-pity never has and never will help anyone. Don't rely on other people for your own happiness, otherwise it will never end. Rather than being with someone that makes you happy, simply be someone that makes you happy. Do what you like to do, hang out with your friends, try to meet new people, try new activities(not retarded activities like smoking, drinking and drugs). Society is somewhat centered around relationships nowadays, so you'll most likely be around people who are in a relationship no matter what you do. Don't let it get you down. As you well know relationships aren't all sun and roses. That being said, take the bad with the good. Being single means that you have freedoms you previously didn't have(even if your girlfriend was extremely tolerant, you would have still taken into account what she would have thought about what you were doing at any given time). If anything else, all the girls you couldn't act overly friendly to(because of your ex-gf) are within your reach now, so you get to treat them like girls, and not like inanimate boring lumps of protoplasm wandering around. You have one less shackle now, more free time and less expenses. All you'll be, you'll be with or without a romantic relationship. Enjoy your freedom and move on. I wouldn't advise you to try to get back with her, because that rarely(if ever) works. Personally, I would never get back with anyone who dumped me. If it's happened once, it can happen again. Make her disappear from your life - don't see her, don't talk to her, cut off all ties with her. For all you care right now she should be considered a complete stranger. Don't start another relationship to get "revenge" on her either, 'cause that inevitably leads to misery. Just act as if she doesn't exist. If and when you meet another person you like and are compatible with, and if you have the desire to begin a romantic relationship again, go for it. Just don't rush it. Rushing things like that is bound to end badly. Serious relationships never happen quickly, you need to know someone really well in order for it to work.

P.S: I've never had a girlfriend, nor have I ever had the desire to have one, and I can assure you that I'm doing pretty well so far. I've always been happy being single, and I plan to stay that way. I want my life to be as exciting as it can be, and having to take into consideration what a girlfriend would think would severely limit the things that I can do. To me relationships are an obstacle to my intellectual pursuits, little more than shackles. The useless drama involved in them is something I despise, and it is sadly present in most. I've seen plenty of people be in good relationships, and I've seen plenty of people in bad relationships. I have never wanted to connect with someone on such a level. That being said, I've always been a mistrustful loner who converses only with people he feels are worth the time, so take from that what you will. The friends that I have are ones that I've chosen, and I've met most of them doing things that I like to do(read training, rock climbing and similar tastes in music/games). Hope this helps.

@wannin: I'm really not sure what we're supposed to gather from that saying. A needle and the ocean have hardly anything in common, wouldn't it make more sense for it to be a drop of water, a pearl or something else that is extremely common there?
Last edited by lordtiger; Dec 9, 2012 at 12:41 PM.
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wow LT no wonder ur the harbinger of logic. Thanks anyways, this really helps me a lot and btw i tried smoking and drinking but not drugs. i dont intend to do drugs but smoking and drinking really taste bad. I don't get why people like to smoke and drink