Well this is my toribash career: I started playing judo, then I went to wushu for a while, I learnd some moves by watching other players.
Then I started playing running tmb, thats when I start to know how my tori works, by trying new runs, improv runs,relaxed runs flips etc...
hell im #2 runner in toribash, but that doesnt mean im good, that means that I played a lot of running tmb.
Also I allways liked to play with high belts 6th dan 7th dan.......
I didnt matter if they kickd my ass. You allways learn when you play with some one that is better than you.
So thats my advise (run, fight the pros and never give up
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