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Hydrotoxin: It's called "domestic partnership". And it deserves the same rights that weddings bring. If it isn't done by a priest or rabbi, but by the state then religion has no right to dictate against it.

Judeo-Christian religions may find homosexuals to be abominations, but they aren't the state, and they can't prohibit an act not done by a priest. They cannot hold the same economic roles right now BTW. Many schools don't allow homosexuals to teach, and that's just one of many professions. And as Odlov said: Laws dictate social acceptance. African-Americans weren't treated anywhere near equal until after laws where passed for their equality, not before, not during, after. So it's about time we get this social train rolling with laws SO THAT it can be acceptable globally within our life time.
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Originally Posted by hydrotoxin View Post

And I'd like to point out that I'm not opposed to pro-gay legislation, or even gays themselves. Marriage is a religious rite, and Judeo-Christian religions frown upon gays- i.e;

"If a man sleeps with a man, or a woman sleeps with a woman, as a man sleeps with a woman, they shall be put to death".

Civil unions are fine by me, but marriage is, at the most fundamental level of the largest religion in the world, unacceptable. I just don't consider the inability to naturally reproduce to be a societal boon, but as I said before, they can perform just as well as a "normal" member of society in terms of economic roles. I fully acknowledge the fact that homosexuality will be acceptable in not too many years-- I'm just pointing out that RIGHT NOW, they aren't.

Don't be so ignorant. Marriage does not mean the same things that it did in previous times. Marriage is no longer a religious practice on anything but a technical level. The church and a priest are a regrettable necessity forced upon couples because of the inability of our religious and legal systems to keep up with the times.

...and it's the people who find unacceptable what they're told to find unacceptable by the bigoted church, and spineless government who are directly responsible for the lack of a positive change in attitude towards issues like homosexual marriage. Your inability to make up your own opinion and take on that of the establishment is both weak minded and detrimental to our society.
I live in Spain, where the gay marriage is legal since 2004, and I think that the gays should have the same rights as the rest of the people. Is stupid to say that if a child is adopted by a gay couple, this child will be strange or something, what a kid needs is love and there are a lot of hetero couples that dont provide good care to their children.
Originally Posted by hydrotoxin View Post
And I'd like to point out that I'm not opposed to pro-gay legislation, or even gays themselves. Marriage is a religious rite, and Judeo-Christian religions frown upon gays- i.e;

"If a man sleeps with a man, or a woman sleeps with a woman, as a man sleeps with a woman, they shall be put to death".

I do believe the discussion was geared towards a legal one, since religious custom would involve too many different religions to ever become a coherent discussion. However, there are a fair number of Christian churches that already perform marriages between same-sex couples.

However from a legal standpoint, I feel I must ask, do you believe that gays should be allowed to join (it seems like your position is a weak yes, but I'm not sure) and/or adopt children (you started off no and now it seems like the issue's been lost)?
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i am pro to both, since a kid needs parents that take care of him.
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Yes to both.

Everyone deserves to love another being,and there is no reason to be against Homosexual people wanting to be married with adopted children.That's basically saying that you can live your own life,but you have to mess with someone elses if they decide to live it in a different way.
Originally Posted by Odlov View Post
Using "all kids should have a mom" as an argument against gay adoption is like me saying "all men should be healthy" to a person with diabetes, refusing to give him insulin until he dies.

The kids we are talking about have no family at all. It's better they get some family, gay or otherwise.

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Originally Posted by hydrotoxin View Post
And I'd like to point out that I'm not opposed to pro-gay legislation, or even gays themselves. Marriage is a religious rite, and Judeo-Christian religions frown upon gays- i.e;

"If a man sleeps with a man, or a woman sleeps with a woman, as a man sleeps with a woman, they shall be put to death".

Civil unions are fine by me, but marriage is, at the most fundamental level of the largest religion in the world, unacceptable. I just don't consider the inability to naturally reproduce to be a societal boon, but as I said before, they can perform just as well as a "normal" member of society in terms of economic roles. I fully acknowledge the fact that homosexuality will be acceptable in not too many years-- I'm just pointing out that RIGHT NOW, they aren't.

I don't know how many times i have to bring this up, but marriage is NOT just a religious ceremony, but a contract which carries far more benefits than the phony "civil union". Either we strip it of it's practical benefits and leave it a purely religious rite, or we grant access to all citizens.
Originally Posted by treanyo View Post
Hydrotoxin is your typical american, but with a little more brain.
i am pro to both, since a kid needs parents that take care of him.
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Originally Posted by Odlov View Post
I don't know how many times i have to bring this up, but marriage is NOT just a religious ceremony, but a contract which carries far more benefits than the phony "civil union". Either we strip it of it's practical benefits and leave it a purely religious rite, or we grant access to all citizens.

He makes a good point there Hydroxin. For a while I thought the same way you do, that since the act of marriage was "founded by the church" than it should remain in the hands of the church as to who can partake.

But, if you look into the legal aspects of a marriage, and how deeply marriage has become ingrained in our society, apart from its religious beginnings, to deny it to people based on those same religious morals that we have removed marriage so far away from goes against some of the finer points of the US (assuming we are speaking about the US).

As for adoption, yes, yes, all the way. The fact that people would rather let children grow up unloved and basically alone rather than entrust them to people who's only difference is that their sexuality goes against a book written thousands of years ago it RETARDED. Go visit some bad parts of town, see some actual poverty, and then tell me it is better to let kids end up living like that than any to grow up in a safe home where, even if they get made fun of or they turn out gay, they are far less likely to end up on drugs or in gangs. Its amazing because normally the people who oppose gay adoption also appose abortion, because its ok to let kids suffer and have no chance, but to stop that before it happens, well that's just wrong.
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