Originally Posted by
Odlov
I don't know how many times i have to bring this up, but marriage is NOT just a religious ceremony, but a contract which carries far more benefits than the phony "civil union". Either we strip it of it's practical benefits and leave it a purely religious rite, or we grant access to all citizens.
He makes a good point there Hydroxin. For a while I thought the same way you do, that since the act of marriage was "founded by the church" than it should remain in the hands of the church as to who can partake.
But, if you look into the legal aspects of a marriage, and how deeply marriage has become ingrained in our society, apart from its religious beginnings, to deny it to people based on those same religious morals that we have removed marriage so far away from goes against some of the finer points of the US (assuming we are speaking about the US).
As for adoption, yes, yes, all the way. The fact that people would rather let children grow up unloved and basically alone rather than entrust them to people who's only difference is that their sexuality goes against a book written thousands of years ago it RETARDED. Go visit some bad parts of town, see some actual poverty, and then tell me it is better to let kids end up living like that than any to grow up in a safe home where, even if they get made fun of or they turn out gay, they are far less likely to end up on drugs or in gangs. Its amazing because normally the people who oppose gay adoption also appose abortion, because its ok to let kids suffer and have no chance, but to stop that before it happens, well that's just wrong.