I'm going to bold the answers, the rest I'd like you to read but isn't necessary to get the answer you seek.
Originally Posted by
dannyrug
Are you a Christian or Catholic
That's a tough question and it is because it's a matter of perspective... in other words, in whose eye's am I Catholic or not?
In the churches eyes I am, I have been baptized and confirmed. I attend mass regularly (my parents make me) and I receive the Eucharist ~ every week.
However,
I denounce any existence of a God, holy spirit, or messiah. I do not believe in any "higher power" and I believe every man/woman is free to do what they wish. Morals are only made to keep people safe and set a standard of life. I believe the idea of religion is useless and the world would be much better off without. I respect people's opinions but hate the hypocrisy I see every day that results directly from religion.
The only reason I am confirmed is for my family. Not my immediate family, they know I'm an atheist, but my grandparents, aunts and uncles, etc. My grandmother is very proud of me for being a Catholic and I don't want to take that from her. If it makes her happy, I don't have a problem doing it. Just that the whole time I was being confirmed I kept think of how much of a joke the whole thing was.
Originally Posted by
dannyrug
If so do you dislike gays and believe that they should not be treated equal to everyone else?
I'm just going to be straight, I don't like gays, I feel homosexuality is unnatural, and that is arguably fact. (If you or anyone else would like to debate this, feel free to PM me.) However, like I said before, everyone is free to do what they wish and I respect that. So yes, they should be treated as equal, in fact,
they are equal. I'm just repulsed by them. Just as they may be repulsed of me for whatever reason. It's not in my control and it's not in theirs. Don't get me wrong, just because I don't want to be around them doesn't mean I think they should be gathered and shot. I'm entitled to my opinion and I would respectfully refuse to be around them, all I ask is for the same level of respect in return. Not to be overwhelmed by hate and rants about equality.
It is my belief that the Catholic church's stance on homosexuality, abortion, contraceptives, etc. completely contradict some of it's teachings. If everyone has free will, why do they feel the need to push legislation to hinder it?
Religion was created to obtain answers from what was unknown to people. As time went on, it turned into a way to control and govern people. Eventually to instill fear in others so they may act. Today, it's less obvious, more structured, but just as effective. Relgion is the nice way of saying "Do this or suffer". "If you're gay, you go to hell." "If you oppose us, you'll go to hell."
By today's standards, some of this is good. Common morals like murdering, stealing, slavery, etc.. all are condemned by Catholicism, but does that mean Catholicism is necessary to condemn them? I don't think so.
Don't think what I'm saying is the answer to life, or how anyone else should live. I only tell you what I feel and how I came about to feel such a way. Hopefully this sparks doubt, curiosity, and wonder. Do a little research, or a lot, but try to find both sides. Decide what you think is right.
To get you started, I'll provide a somewhat biased source, but he's my favorite atheist because like a sane person, he has humility for those who are religious and respects their choice.
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On a side note, I urge you to do a little research on his political views as well. He's libertarian which may be something you'd like to know about because it's a nice, logical, refreshing, change from all the conservative vs. liberal bullshit. If you haven't found out, he's a big role model of mine, mainly because the first time I saw his videos I didn't know who he was or what his stance was but I found myself agreeing with essentially everything he said. Even if I tried to find something wrong, I couldn't. Everything he said was spot on.
Last edited by JayStar; May 23, 2013 at 06:24 AM.