I pretty much respect anyone who has a generally good attitude. Especially if they talk to people who are a lot 'below them' in the heirachy. Eg Guv'na, eh is a cool guy and doesnt afraid of anything, and also talks to all the newbies and he is very friendly. So respect for him. But then someone like... not naming names, but they just asociate with the oldfags and pretty much flame newbies if ever. ie people who act like moot get no respect from me.
I generally try to be open and relaxed, but often I cant be bothered and just end up flaming or trolling. As a result i dont think im very respected n_n
Power should be respected, but I make a distinguishment between respect for personality and respect for strength. They are no where near the same in my mind, achieving respect is easy for people with power, and I place way more value on respect for personality.
In a forum situation this means I respect the mods even if i dont know them, but I can easily respect a normal user far more.