Since most of you cannot recognize a joke, here is some advice.
I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year-ish, and it's been crazy. In a good way of course. She never would have taken a second look at me if I wasn't sweet, so be sweet. Tell her she is beautiful and cute and pretty, not hot and sexy. Girls like a guy who is confident, sympathy is the worst because it may seem like they like you, but really they just feel bad for you. Don't be cocky, but don't put yourself down. Now I don't know this girl, but first date stuff as far as being physical goes is very little. Hug her when you first see her, and after lightly keep your hands on her waist and say hi or whatever while looking directly at her. While walking or whatever you can hold hands, but it's more important to be a sweet, cute, funny guy. It's better to be unfunny than it is to fail at trying to be funny.
Yeah I know what I'm talking about.
PM if you need any more advice, I'd be happy to help.
I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year-ish, and it's been crazy. In a good way of course. She never would have taken a second look at me if I wasn't sweet, so be sweet. Tell her she is beautiful and cute and pretty, not hot and sexy. Girls like a guy who is confident, sympathy is the worst because it may seem like they like you, but really they just feel bad for you. Don't be cocky, but don't put yourself down. Now I don't know this girl, but first date stuff as far as being physical goes is very little. Hug her when you first see her, and after lightly keep your hands on her waist and say hi or whatever while looking directly at her. While walking or whatever you can hold hands, but it's more important to be a sweet, cute, funny guy. It's better to be unfunny than it is to fail at trying to be funny.
Yeah I know what I'm talking about.
PM if you need any more advice, I'd be happy to help.
A certain recluse, I know not who, once said that no bonds attached him to this life, and the only thing he would regret leaving was the sky.
Originally Posted by Hacks
I have the same problem with my current one, i have been going out with her for about a year now, and we are both a little on the shy side, but we both told our self, if we really love each other like we say we do, we can get over that, and work on becoming more social with each other, and its been one long year, and its been one of the best, like a lot of the others say, if you can't be yourself around her, its not gonna work.... you need someone who you can be around and be yourself no matter what.. on what to say, is not a problem, well not for me anyways, im not really sure but i always seem to say what they like, and its weird because i know exactly what they like to say, and it works towards my advantage. But what you say, come from the heart, and do just that, don't make things up so she likes you more, it just comes back to bite you on the butt, end of story.. Well hope your first date, works out good.
~Hacks
i can be myself around her but like i said i just dont
know what to say most of the time.
i always say things from my heart to her and every
time i see her she says im getting more confedent
around her. so i think i need to spend more time
with her to be more confedent.
thanks heaps hacks ill remember what you said for
tomorow when i see her.
and thanks to everyone so far who has gvien me their
opinion on what they think.
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