ok so everytime i try to log-in it says error: counldn't connect to server the only thing i can really do is play free play and the tutorials. can you guys help me. its really bugging me

What server do you try joining? IT may be your belt. You QI may be too low to join certain rooms.

Or his Qi can be too high.
Make sure your firewall is allowing toribash to connect.

Guys, he said log in not join a room, they are not the same thing.

Try reinstalling toribash, and make sure your firewall isn't blocking it. This sounds mostly like a firewall problem.

he said "cant connect to server", if you fail to log in it comes with "Failed to log in useing User * password *" He thinks he cant login when really it a qi problem.

when your in single player, are you tori or your user name.

It does sound like an error when he tries to join a room. In which case, try moving up to the intermediate rooms.

it says failed to connect if it can't reach the server, reguardless of why or when, if you log in with not interenet conenection thats the message you get, atleast in my experiance thats the case.

Try turning off your fire wall while playing. (careful with that, viruses and stuff)
It might be blocking toribash from connecting to the net.