i carnt seem to send messgase or veiw them can you help me pelase this effects me alot because of my bizzness ect...

Err, you mean Personal messages? The 'PM system?

I've sent you a message, you should see in the top right hand corner:

Welcome, B0BAH.
You last visited: *
Private Messages: Unread *, Total *.

you can either click that, or just use this link to check your messages:
http://forum.toribash.com/private.php
You can also check your messages via the UserCP in the top left.

Send me a message back to test it.

cheres pro its jsut because i used to go private messages and done.