Well, my parents really restricted most of these even now they havent acknowledged that I grew up. I found my mother forbidding me of playing mario cart online when I was 14. Thats over protection.
What parents need to say to their child is that the internet is as dangerous as real life. You dont start talking about private information to somebody you dont know. If you teach them this at young age, they will start off not responding to anyhting people say in chat. But, the problem is, for examples my parents, when it comes to over protection. If you do so, your children will go on forums/chats without you knowing about it. You do not want to teach your child how to hide, because this will make a new problem: child is confident he can hide everything from everyone. (And no, I do not ahve to hide to go on toribash community and I can play online games as I want)
Internet, if well used, can be a benefit.
Also, young people for me is beetwen 10-14. Yes, at 10 years old your child isnt ready to start posting and chatting, but if you teach him well, he can play online games and will have my first reaction.
example 1:Nice kilL!
liquidoom; thanks!
example 1: lets make a clan together!
liquidoom: hmmm...i dont know
example1: were do you live?
liquidoom disconnected game
So, basically if you teach your children well at young age they wont use that freedom. later, they will grow up and know what is good an right, and gain responsibility