Offtopic - Do you buy tc? No way you joined September and got enough tc to buy a flame, hunter force, a head text, etc. Or, you may be the marketing god :P
Also, don't rage with people when they're just giving you some CnC. It may sound harsh, but they're only trying to help you.
Ontopic - Well, I only watched your first spar, so, here we go. Since you're just starting to spar, I suggest relaxing your movements. You need to keep a nice flow when connecting hits and movements together. Try not to lift yourself up by raising your arms. Experiment with different ways of getting up. You should also try to keep some more balance when sparring. Try not to be point hungry(trying to win with points all the time). Spars are all about teamwork. Make sure your partner looks good as well. Don't make retarded, ugly hits just to get points. Always plan ahead about what you're going to do next. And, to me most importantly, try to look stylish. I hope that this helps you in your future spars. Good luck :]