Well uh, RayA75 asked me to make a discussionthread about abortion.




Here is my view on this matter:

• I do not think killing an unconscious, not self-aware being is murder. That is more a matter of definition than anything so I'd rather not go into that.

• Aborting a child can be traumatizing for the mother. When they chose to do it anyway their choice should be respected and be supported, or left alone at least. Trying to force her not to do it will cause more problems than it would solve.

• Prohibiting something that is high in demand never works out properly. You have to ask yourself “is it worth it?”
My answer, in this case, is “no!” for the following reason:
When you try to prohibit abortions they are going to happen anyway, just not in a clean and save environment of hospitals. Desperate women will try to do it alone or with the help of illegal abortionists somewhere which is likely to cause bad injuries.


I do not encourage abortion, I'd prefer giving the child away for adoption.
But trying to enforce that will not work, so yeah, go for it. vOv

RayA75's Moderated Message:

Yo, keep this thread of high quality. From now on, if posts dip in content, sense, or literacy, people will get infracted

Abortion isnt really killing, it's just killing a egg growing in a womans womb

For me, my opinion would depend on the situation. If your past the age of 24 with a steady income, why get an abortion? Why not just start a family. But if you're 19 or under still living off/with your parents, jobless and in school, barely able to take care of yourself, you're not ready to take care of a child

uh, because you don't want to?
A child is gonna require hard work and most of your free time so don't you dare to just say “just get it because you can”.
Unless you are rich you will be stripped off most of your income. You won't have much fun unless you enjoy being a parent.
Many women chose to give their babies away, most of them probably want to get it abortet because it is easier and won't affect them too much. Yes, that can be considered egoistic, but there is no reason to hate on them. There are enough people.

+ why go thru all that pain and then hand it over when u can just get rid of it before then

Contradiction, perhaps? :3

Mind bolding where I implied "get it because you can"? Unless you mean "keep the baby because you can" and not referring to the abortion. Who ever said the most fulfilling things in life are supposed to always be fun? Yea, there are enough people in this world but I'm pretty sure the some of the most bitter of the people in this world could find some sort of joy in watching their spawn grow up and progress through his/her's life

Hell, i would never get abortion... i would rather see my baby that was in me for 9 months come out and then get it adopted to a good family.

/me breaths in and breaths out

Ok fellas. See if you can keep up.

The "mainstream argument" about abortion today as I see it is as follows:

Proponents of abortion say that abortion is not muder, thus it is completely fine.

Anti-abortionists say that abortion is muder as the fetus is just as human as you and me, and so abortion is horrible in any situation.

Here is my take on that argument:
It's a fool's argument. It's a trap. I will not have a position on it. Why is that?
This argument comes down to the question of "What is person hood?" This question has never been and probably will never be answered. It is a quasi scientific, quasi metaphysical question with an answer to which will never be found in either topic. We will never draw a definitive line between what is a person and what is not.
Another reason why this is a fool's argument is because it is only one aspect of a very complicated issue. The ends of this argument attempts to do one thing, and one thing only; to equate abortion with murder, thus abortion is as unethical as murder.
I do not think that this is the only way we can find abortion to be ethical or not.

I will present my own argument:
When debating whether abortion is ethical or not, we need not argue about when life begins; but the process by which life comes about; and how abortion interferes with said process.
That is to say, abortion ceases the fetus' process to become. Murder ceases the human's being.
Allow me to define my terms.
A sperm in itself is in the process of being a sperm. Over its existence it will continue to be a sperm, unchanged, not becoming something else. This is overlooked when proponents of abortion talk rhetoric such as "Are you gonna say masturbation is as bad as abortion?" A sperm will not become a human being. A sperm will not gain person hood if left to its natural processes. When you kill sperm, you are killing sperm, because in itself, it is only being.
A fertilized egg, or fetus in itself is in the process of becoming a person. If left to its natural processes, it will become a baby, and then a person. A fetus is in the process of becoming. When you perform abortion on a fetus, you are ending the process to become whatever the fetus is becoming, namely a human. When you commit abortion, you are then infringing on the right to become. I will touch upon becoming later again, and how important the right to become is as well.
A human in itself is in the process of being a human, a person. When you muder a person, you kill that person. The person is not becoming something in that a fetus is becoming a person. When you kill a person, then you are infringing on the right to life.

Ok, so those rights I mentioned:
In America, and through our common western ethics, particularly the Nicomachean Ethics presented by Aristotle, our right to life is held in extreme regard. That right to life is derived from the right to become. One cannot live without becoming into a living being, as a fetus is.
We can now reasonably infer that the right to become is, or atleast almost as, important as the right to life.
Now, why is abortion legal? Our legality of abortion shows us, who have done such an analysis of our natural human rights, see that our right to become has been infringed on. What is the right on the other side of the argument? Sometimes, it is the mother's right to life. In cases like that, I think the cease of the right to become is justifiable. In other cases like that of rape, it is the trauma of the mother that should come into account. In cases like that, I suggest that a case by case study should be done. We cannot make such a broad law about that. In cases of simple "I'm too young to have a baby" and "It was an accident" situations, we see that the fetus' right to become is infringed upon by the right of convenience. We see that we put the apparent, near sighted, immediate good of convenience in front of a right as simple, as important, as universal, and as human as the right to become. We cannot afford to think this way, and I will challenge anyone to tell me otherwise.



That isn't what he said. Paraphrasing, he said that people can say "I don't want to have the baby, so I will get an abortion because I can."
I don't quite understand your stance here. Are you supporting or opposing abortion? Your first post implies that you support it, but your recent implies that you oppose it.
I'm sorry, but you can't oppose abortion by telling the would-be parents that it will be fulfilling in the long run.



Because that thing you are giving birth to is going to grow up to be a person like you, while the fetus you abort won't.

As hard as i try to follow the Catholic/christian doctrine, i find the abortion topic a particurly difficult one to deal with. I am not a perfect christian who follows everything to the letter and am typically a young adult who does the same things that most young adults do in the modern age.

in an ideal world, everyone would be responsible(abstain/contraception) and have no need for them.
but the fact is, the majority arent responsible and the need for legal abortions is neccesary.
a baby at the wrong time can ruin lives. economical situations often dictate the feasability of having a baby. family situations are often a decisive problem. Pregnancies that come from rape situations. and population control is almost a certainty in the future.

The typical arguments against abortion, murder and infringments on rights etc, are all very valid, which i do agree wholeheartedly with. i do believe that a fetus is a person and aborting it is tantamount to murder.

but still, if i were placed in the situation right now, if my girlfriend suddenly got pregnant, im not sure what I would do, im not sure what id WANT to do, but i am not ready for a baby in my life.

Overall, conflicted.

For me - as a woman - that's something you do only in really, really critical situations. If I would be for example raped - I don't know if I would want to have someones else 'life' in myself. I am really laughing hard at male saying that abortion is bad. How can You know? How can You know how a woman is feeling? What would You do if your girlfriend would be raped and she would want to do abortion, because she does not want to even think that she would have to born someone's else child, someone that hurt her really really bad. IMHO, the problem is in our so called 'morality' and the thing that makes us want to know everything, and to control everything.

If a woman wants abortion - even after all discussions about it etc etc - help her. It's her decision and it's, AFAIK, her body.