I'm not a particularly good player, but I can try and share.
In aikido at least, every player has a preferred playstyle. Personally I like using knees and pushes, but someone like Nomad will go for a suplex nearly every time.
If you can play every style competently, you can effectively counter your opponent.
Speaking of counters, most moves have a hard counter (my knee's vulnerability is the supporting hip apparently).
Mostly though, the number one thing that will cause you to lose is tilt, or getting mad.
It's a pretty hard thing not to get annoyed seeing as a lot of the duel community are reaaaaallllyyy arrogant people on alts, and then there's these other guys in some super cool kid clan who beat you by some luck and pretend they knew what they were doing.
Wow rant.
Anyway, sometimes I opt chat completely, that can help. I notice sometimes you're an okay guy, and you genuinely play better, but other times you get really mad and start doing really dumb stuff.
As for whether not to lift, just lift. People will bitch at you but if they can't counter 1 or 2 different lift moves then they deserve to lose their money.
As for making money, I think mastering a certain mod is the way to go.
Last edited by Fear; Dec 26, 2013 at 04:03 AM.