I bought the stuff, but my character doesnt change.

you have to go to your inventory and activate the items.
http://forum.toribash.com/tori_inactive.php

I have done that and activated it and it still won't come up...is it because I have mac lol.

Sorry if I am filling the support

Disable your firewall i guess...

Do you have Toribash 3.7 ?
Don't you have another similar item activated (Two relaxes for example) ?

I have mac 3.71
and they are activated

Like other people can see it,
but I can't